(Closed) So upset :(

posted 9 years ago in Married Life
Post # 377
1835 posts
Buzzing bee

@brush1027:  You need to block his number (you can call the service provider and have it done really easy), block him on facebook again (there is NO reason for him to still have access to any of your life – this is another way he’s trying to control and manipulate you), and if you want the dog to keep then do NOT let him have her!

Post # 378
7 posts
  • Wedding: August 2005

I’m also sorry to hear that.  I agree with moriah.  

I would also suggest to give him some space, back away a little.  Men usually come around when they feel that they could actually loose you in reality.  Emotional pressure will only make it worse.  If you can’t stay with friends of family, take a little break for a day or two, tell him its’ to clear you head.  Without you around in the home or what he’s used to, it will actually give him time to think, appreciate you and realise all the things he loves about you.  Distance certainly does’ make the heart grow stronger.  

We can all be a little flipant with our emotions at times and as Moriah put it, when things seem a little unromantic we feel like we are no longer in love.  

Take that time for yourself, be strong and give him the time to comprehend his own feelings.

Wishing all will work out well. x 

Post # 379
7 posts
  • Wedding: August 2005

Oh gosh, I’m sorry I did’nt read the whole thread.  

Delete him from your life, change your number as suggested by others.  Loose all contact and don’t fall for his manipulative games.  Its’ easy to get stuck in a circle of revenge games, don’t fall to this level.

Head up, be strong and move along, swiftly. 

Best x

Post # 381
1837 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

@brush1027:  Just ignore everything from him. Delete him off of Facebook & change your phone number. I know its hard but you really do not need this. It sounds like if he throws a big enough fit, you cave to what he wants (such as your dog). Stop giving in to his crazyness. Do not ever let him “borrow” your dog again though! If he is harrassing you, you can file a restraining order against him. Keep those texts, emails, voicemails, etc & show it to the cops. Sorry you’re going through this :(.

Post # 382
3457 posts
Sugar bee

@brush1027:  Oh my goodness, I’m so freaking proud of you!!!! Seriously you’ve traveled so far since the first few pages of this thread. I can’t wait until you get your dog, your divorce, and leave this loser behind.

Post # 384
1505 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@brush1027:  I am happy that you are doing so well… but I AM worried that you are moving on too fast (I know, you just know… but still)

So, wait… you gave him the dog? 🙁 Not cool! 

I wish you all the best! 

Post # 385
844 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Yikes, you’re not even divorced and dating someone already? I could never get over such a lengthy relationship that quickly. Something’s bound to break…

Post # 386
1125 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@Fluffmallow:  Meh, who really cares as long as she’s getting over the douche.

Post # 387
408 posts
Helper bee

ive been the ‘new’ love interest in the past to a guy who was fresh out of a long marriage/relationship. no matter how much he would say he was over his ex wife. i knew he wasnt. in the end i got hurt. after that i made it a rule to not date ppl in that category.


i know you say you just ‘know’ and youve moved on, which is good. i just hope for the new guys sake he doesnt get hurt in the process. it would be unfair to him if youre still emotionally attached to the ex..


i hope it works out for u


Post # 390
6386 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

@brush1027:  Glad to hear you’re in good spirits and things are working out for you.  Best of luck in your new life 🙂

Post # 391
1227 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

@brush1027:  Good for you! I’ve been following this thread and it is just heartbreaking, but I am so glad you are able to find the strength to get on with your life. You will get the life you deserve!

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