(Closed) So upset :(

posted 8 years ago in Married Life
Post # 392
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

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@brush1027:  Congrats and good luck with whatever new adventures life has in store for you! You deserve all of the happiness in the world!

Post # 393
Hostess
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

Wow I read this whole thread and you are so strong! I don’t know you but I’m so proud of you for getting out and doing things for yourself! Good luck in this new journey!!!!

Post # 394
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

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@brush1027: 

Wow. I just read through all OP’s posts. I am sorry you had to go through all this. It sounds awful. I am glad that you feel better. I do think that you are moving on too fast. I think that you do not know how to be single, since you have been with someone since you were 14. But frankly, I don’t know that that’s a terrible thing. Maybe you do feel strongly about new . Or maybe he is just waht is helping you through this time. Either way, you have had someone that helped you be strong and get this divorce finalized.

I hope that in time, you come ready to on your own though. I am saying this from a perspective of someone who did not know how to be single. I forced myself to be single for a whole year about 10 years ago. I then started dating again. I though 1 year was enough time, but it wasn’t. I got super serious with a guy, and long story short, I got divorced after having 3 children with him.

I have remarried since. I am with the love of my life of 13 years. But I had to learn a lot about myself in the process, and give myself enough time to know me.

Good luck to you my dear. I wish you the best.

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