- 9 years ago
- Wedding: October 2009
So an incident happened when I first started dating my fiance, and now I hate a girl and her family and will never ever talk to them ever. (Don’t want to get into it on the internet, but I barely know this girl and she’s a little older and the situation was completely insane on her part)
Anyway, it is understood that obviously I will never ever talk to that person or her family members ever again. Well, turns out that fiances sister (who is friendly with the girl I don’t like) is also friends with this other girl who happens to be the first cousin of the family I will never talk to again. Obviously, I want nothing to do with that family, and I’ve banned them all from any event I ever have and I never ever will talk to them.
Well fiances sister has the cousin (of the girl I hate) on her list of people to invite to my wedding. Today we went to finalize the invites, coming up with how many we need, and I told fiance we need to let her know that I’m not comfortable with her being at my wedding.
I honestly saw this girl one time and she gave me a dirty look, is the first cousin of my one and only enemy …. and I dont want her to come to MY wedding.
Well fiance and I call her just now and say that there’s one person that cannot come – out of 5 or 6 people + their husbands (or guest) mind you, and she FREAKS OUT.
She’s all screaming and yelling and saying she won’t come if I don’t invite the friend and that she already told her that she is invited and how could I do this I don’t even know the girl, and I say … it’s my wedding, I don’t want her there. … she says
ITS NOT YOUR WEDDING ITS OUR WEDDING … they all like you and say nice things about you. Just take me off the list if you take my friend off the list.
So I hung up on her.
Fiance and I called her back b/c I decided I didn’t want to carry on a fight. I say ok. You can invite her if she’s your best friend, I didn’t know, but I’m inviting her for you and I don’t like that family … she continues yelling and screaming at me.
Now I am so upset. I’ve been crying for like 30 minutes and I took a shower to calm down and I’m still upset and I just had to let it out on here.
What would you do?