Post # 1
SORRY FOR THE CAPS BUT MY PHONE KEYPAD IS PLAYING UP…
IM GOING CRAZY… MY PARENTS AND I ARE FIGHTING HEAPS, ITS QUITE DISFINCTIONAL AND NOONE CAN UNDERSTAND….MY Fiance IS BEING A COMPLETE IDIOT BOUT IT… WHILE HE KNOWS THE SITUATION HE STILL IS MAKING ME FEEL WORSE….
IV BEEN FEELING SOOOOO ANGRY AND CRAZY ALL WEEKEND BOUT MY PARENTS AND FINALLY I JJUST SNAPPED IT! NOW THE THING IS THAT NOW Fiance SNAPPED IT AT ME COZ IM ANGRY! HE GOT ALL CRAZY AND STARTED YELLING AT ME AND SO WEV NOW HAD A HUGE FIIGHT N IM SOOOOOO UPSET N ALL I WANT IS SUMONE TO CARE FOR ME AND MY FEELINGS! I HARDLYY EVER GO CRAZY BUT SUMTIMES LIKE EVERYONE I JUST HAVE TO LET OUT MY TEARS!
IM SOOOOO UPSET, OUR WEDDINGS IN 5 WEEKS N ALL I CAN THINK BOUT IS HOOW NOONE CARES FOR ME WHEN IM UPSET…. I DO EVERYTHING FOR EVERYONE, IM ALWAYS SUPPORTIVE OF MY Fiance AND LOOK AT HOW HE IS TREATING ME WHEEN INEED HIM MOST 🙁
SORRY FOR THE CAPS AGAINN AND THE SPELLLING IM CRYING MY EYES OUT STILL 🙁
Post # 3
I am sorry you are so upset. Just try to weigh things out in your head. Why are you so upset? Is it really that important? Your arguments with your parents will likely die down after the wedding. Hopefully everyone can come to a peaceful agreement when everything is all said and done. Just try to take some deep, relaxing breaths and look forward to your wedding!
Post # 4
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🙁 (((hugs))) I’m sorry. I know that feeling well. I wish I had some advice.
Post # 5
Oh there is nothing worse than anger and resentment builidng towards a day filled with love adn happineess that starts forever for a couple.
What is all the fighting about?
Is your Fiance always this unsupportive or reactive?
Post # 6
hope your feeling a little better since writing this! (i see your an aussie too! )
it really sucks when this kind of stuff happens.. you expect to be stressed, but you dont think it will be your familiy or you Fi making you crazy! mines a little less than 7 months away and ive had some of this craziness!
i reallydont know what advice to offer you, but i hope you can sort it out! and that it doesnt kee happening all the way up to your big day!
good luck! ((((hugs))))
Post # 7
thanks girls … it did make me feel better writing that out … and also with the crying for half the day!! … once i calmed down my Fiance and i spoke and he was upset that i was taking my anger out on him ….. i totally see his point coz i go just as cranky when he just snaps at me for no good reason – and especially since we r both just as stubborn and can get just as cranky lol …. but its all good with the Fiance, he calmed me down, and reminded me how there is just 5 weeks to go to the most exciting day of our lives!!! he said that he just acted wrong to get cranky at me … but i was out of control it was bad :(((
my parents are nits, traditional, crazy and everythign in between … the hard thing is that yes they did do everythign for me when i was young, they looked after me and my bro, sent us to the best schools, did everything for us, but now that they have gone psycho and resentful on me it uis doing my head in! … altho u should all know that it has been going on for a while with them …… i just cannot wait til im outa that house and living my own life …. but yes i can totally see them trying to control me once im gone too …. they are impossible!
Post # 8
yup im from sydney 🙂 where r u from???
Post # 9
@littleG: So sorry you’ve been so upset. Maybe it is best to take a short break from the heaviness of life and have a little fun. Go to the movies, shopping, the park, the beach. Escape for a little. When you return, you’ll be refreshed and ready to tackle all of this a little at a time. 5 weeks to go. Hang in there.
Post # 10
Five weeks to go? Sounds like everyone is freaking out. Just hang in there, I bet after the wedding it calms down. Weddings tend to bring out all the old frustrations, fights and all that stuff in between. Hang in there, I promise it will blow over!