(Closed) So upset post wedding (photos)

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Hostess
23602 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@stars11:  There’s nothing wrong with you!  I totally have similar feelings some days.  Even 9 months after our wedding, I still have trouble getting over the fact that my some of my bridesmaids never plan on being friends ever again.  Weddings are just taxing on a lot of people especially when it’s not their own wedding day.  Makes it really hard on the bride herself, especially when all she wants is for everyone to get along and just behave themselves!

You’ll be okay.  Just try to focus on the happy things. 🙂

Post # 4
Member
6543 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

Have you talked to your photographer about this? Did you provide them with a shot list of photos you wanted to capture?

Post # 5
Member
248 posts
Helper bee

You could ask your photographer to photoshop some people in, if it will make you really happy. Or a student at your local community college. (Depending on the money you want to spend.) Maybe ask other guests if they took any pictures, usually those can be equally as amazing. So many people seem to be budding photographers now anyways, with DSLR’s and such. 🙂 

Just because it may not be the norm to do a ‘trash the dress’ shoot in your area most photographers are ecstatic about being able to try something that is different compared to the standard requests. If you have the budget for it, you could hire someone and provide them with the images you want. 

Overall, don’t feel guilty. 

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