(Closed) So upset right now (cat)

posted 8 years ago in Pets
Post # 3
3613 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Wow. I have no words for this. I honestly don’t know how I could forgive her, hope you’re a better person than I am.

Do you think the cat was really sick or was she less than honest about that too?

Post # 4
8353 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

I am so sorry…

I can’t even formulate words to describe how I feel about this and it isn’t even my cat.

Have you confronted your mother about this? Does she normally do stuff that is not the norm?

I am sorry, I am at a loss…

Post # 5
162 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

OMG! Why did your mother do this?? I am so sorry to hear that… 🙁

How long have you had Sammy?


Post # 8
458 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

That’s just horrible and the fact that your brother went along with it is even more horrible. Have you tried calling Vets/shelters around that area to see if maybe someone brought in a cat matching his description? Did he possibly have a microchip linked to your moms house that they might have contacted? I’m not sure if Petfinder has a lost and found section but maybe you can search for him there as well. I hope you can find him.

Post # 9
8353 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

@Gingersnap: I am so sorry. I know I have already stated that, but I am. If I were you, I would totally confront your mother with what you know and then make her go with you to try and search for your Sammy. I also have a Sami cat and if someone did that to her, I would go ballistic on the person. I know it is your mom, but gee whiz, she should know better. She could have at least dropped him off at a shelter or a vet. This is so sad. I know you are going to be heartbroken for quite awhile.

Post # 10
1645 posts
Bumble bee

Oh my god I am so so sorry!! My cat is missing right now and I’m completely beside myself. If I found out someone had done this to my cat (much less my MOTHER), I would cut them out of my life. Seriously. I would never speak to that woman again. She DUMPED your cat. Who the fuck does that? You know how we always talk about how cruel people are who dump their animals? She did that to YOUR cat. I’m seething right now just imagining it. Again–I am so so SO sorry. I would look for him. I would call every vet and every shelter and ask if he’s been through there. Honestly–the chances are slim, but you’ve GOT to try.


Post # 12
261 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I am SO sorry to hear that 🙁 I don’t know what I would do if someone dumped one of my beautiful furbabies!!! Good luck with your search (by the way I would absolutely be making my mother put in the hard yards with the searching if she had done this!) if you don’t find him let’s hope that some lovely soul has taken him in!

Post # 13
1638 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I’m so sorry you are going through this. I agree with @MissHoneyBun what your mom did is really F’ed up. I don’t think I could forgive my mom for something like that, my cats are my children!

Post # 14
1003 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

If my mother did that I would be calling the SPCA on her and charging her and brother with animal cruelity.

S-h-*-t like that I would disown people over. Personally.

Post # 15
32 posts
  • Wedding: August 2011

I am horrified right now.  I would never, ever, ever forgive a member of my family for doing such a thing.  My dog is older and frail and if someone abandoned him somewhere I would never speak to that person again.  I truly hope you find him. 

Post # 16
548 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

It would honestly take a lot for me to forgive my mother for that, if I ever did.  That is cruelty plain and simple.  She could have taken the animal to a shelter, but instead chose to abandon the cat.  How awful.  And the fact that she’s lying makes it even worse.

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