- 9 years ago
- Wedding: May 2010
Gingersnap: I just sent you a PM 🙂
Gingersnap: I just sent you a PM 🙂
this story makes me so livid. I’m very sorry, Gingersnap. Honestly, I know you said things are rocky now, but there’s no way I’d ever forgive my mom and siblings for that bullshit. It’s completely heartless and wrong, how they refuse to see that is beyond me. I would never EVER trust my kids with them.
Here is the 2nd photo of Gingersnap’s Sammy:
This made me sick to my stomach to read this. I have two cats and they are my babies! One is crazy and is a little more independent but the other is my girl, I feel kind of special because I am like the only person she really loves! LOL! So the thought of someone doing that to her makes me sick!! Imaging your cat all alone out there breaks my heart.
I’m sorry but anyone who would do that to an innocent animal would be out of my life. I mean, I really have no words.
ETA: I just realized how late in the conversation I was! Oops! But I just wanted to send my thoughts to you for your loss. It’s hard to lose a pet and losing one this way is 10 times harder, I’m sure.
@worcesterbride: I totally agree!! Pets are a part of the family and should be treated as such! It makes me sad when people can just dispose of them like they are nothing. I have two cats and everyone told me that I wouldn’t love them as much when I had kids. BS!! I have a son and I love my cats just as much as I did before! I maybe even love them more (than before) because of the laughs and smiles they bring to my sons face everyday! And because of them my son learned what a kitty was! LOL! They are still my babies!
I’m hoping that you give us an update that you found him. My heart is broken for you. that’s awful. 🙁
@Gingersnap- How are you doing? any updates? have you spoken to your mom?
Ugh…my heart is breaking all over again because I have been there.
I was active duty military and going on deployement. At the time I lived with my best friend, I was in the process of going through an ugly divorce because of my abusive ex husband, and all i felt like I had was my sweet cat who was my everything. She was always there for me and knew when I needed love, as if she was reassuring me I would be ok with everything I was going through…anywhoo….I had to leave for a couple months, I made it STUPID easy for my friwend to take care of her while I was gone. Bought enough food for the whole time and even SO MUCH litter to where she would NOT have to clean the litter box, just dump it out
I called her about every two weeks or when I could to check on my baby…and then one day I got an email…she couldnt find her! I called ASAP and she could NOT tell me the last time she saw her, she could not remember if her collar was on. NOTHING. Just that she “couldnt” find her. Well she also happened to move her boyfriend of the time in while I was gone without telling me or asking if I was OK with it, they later broke up and he told me the truth. She put her food and water bowl and bed outside. I dont think i could have clarified more that she was NEVER to be outside overnight. we lived on a lot of land she loved to play, but predators duh, so I would NEVER let her be outside at night and she always came running when you called her name. She was AMAZING! I talked to her about it, and she did not deny it. I could not grasp how someone could be so careless. Especially my best friend. So the fact that your mother did this is worse which FLOORS me! I searched forever and put up posters, called around, posted at stores, and never found my baby. Its been 5 years and I still find myself looking around the roads where I use to live if im driving out that way. I still wonder about her time to time even though I know the odds.
I PRAY you find your little one. I know the pain, and I dont wish it upon ANYONE, it did get a little easier over the years but its never gone. I pray you dont have to experiecne that yourself, and that one day soon you get a phonecall or information to where he is! PLEASE keep up updated!
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