(Closed) So we called off our wedding …..

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 17
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

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@cheerUP:  I dont know if this is advice or just some helpful words but…

I know it doesnt feel like you will recover right now but you definitely will. I left a 6.5 year relationship before and it felt like I would never meet someone. INstead I met someone way better and my life is much different (in a good way) now! 

One day at a time. I would still try and carry on with all my normal activities and start to go out when you are ready…

 

Post # 18
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Busy bee

Cuddles, massive huge giant cuddles xxx

Post # 19
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

Big hugs! We’re here for you if you need to chat or just … be.

Post # 20
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Busy bee

Huge hugs! I’m so sorry for what you’re going through! 🙁

Post # 21
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: Dorset, UK

Mega super cyber hugs xxx

Post # 22
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

I have no words of advice, but I hope your heart heals a little more with each passing day. Sending cyber hugs your way.

Post # 23
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

I’m so sorry :(. Sending positive thoughts and love your way.

Post # 24
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

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@cheerUP:  hang in there! I know you are in a tremendous amount of pain and feeling like things will never be ok again. But they will be! You will feel better as time goes by and you will find someone who is better suited to spend the rest of your life with. Don’t be afraid to lean on your friends and family! Let them keep you busy and distracted, they love you and want to help. 

Post # 25
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Bumble bee

 

*HUGS*

Post # 26
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Sugar bee

@cheerUP:  Oh Frown.  Such a difficult situation. Cry all you want. Eat all the ice cream you want. Whatever brings you comfort. But just know that it will get better someday. 

Post # 27
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Honey Beekeeper

I’m so sorry.  You will get through this, one day at a time.  More hugs to you!   

Post # 28
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@cheerUP:  *hugs*

I’m so sorry that you’re dealing with this. It does get better though. My husband and I went through a very difficult time over a year ago. We were originally supposed to get married at the end of May 2012. Less than a month before our wedding was supposed to be, we called off our wedding but stayed together. Then in June we broke up, and he kicked me out. It was incredibly difficult on me (and on him). While our relationship is better now, I still occasionally have problems. Obviously, we got back together, but there was a very difficult few months. 

Don’t feel like you have to tell everyone or even anyone. Tell who you want to tell. My husband and I were very private, but news got around. I asked my mom to tell people b/c I was embaressed and didn’t want to tell people. For me, it didn’t help to have tons of friends who wanted to blame him or rip on him. I kept busy with work.

Let me know if there is anything that i can do.

Post # 29
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Busy bee

I’m sorry you’re sad. Things will eventually get a bit better (and time will go back to passing at normal speed!)

Post # 30
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

@cheerUP:  I am really sorry you are going through this. I have no advice, but I will be thinking of you.

Post # 31
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Busy bee

((Hugs))

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