(Closed) so we had THE chat……..

posted 9 years ago in Waiting
Post # 17
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1577 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013 - Country Club

Fiance felt too young to get married at 22. He just felt like he had a lot more life to live (my Fiance is also an electrician) and now, 2 (almost 3 years) later we’re engaged on our way to get married. I get that you guys have been together a long time, but you are also really young. 21/22 is still young (I know I’m only 21, almost 22 myself, but I do know it is a young age) and if he doesn’t feel ready, he won’t feel MORE ready with you pushing him.

Post # 18
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9129 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

@lucy_smith:  “he doesnt want to get married, have kids, or buy our own house”

If these are all things you want then you need to seriuosly reassess your relationship.  Read He’s Just Not That Into You and move on with a guy you don’t have to wait around for (especially when he has already given you a clear answer.) 

With my FH I didn’t have to initiate the conversation, he just knew that he loved being with me and that the obvious next step for him in our relationship; this is directly from him during a conversation we had while planning the wedding.  He was tired of many of our conversations starting out with “when or if we get married…”

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