(Closed) So, what do you do when…

posted 5 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Show them the b*tchy side of you!!! I’ve been thru this with FI’s mom, ugh!!!!!!!!!!!! I HATE HER!!!!!!!!!!!

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@greenidlady:  She DID live with us that was the problem! No, I’m not around her at all anymore. She is a selfish, manipulative person… not to mention I found out after she moved out that she is a registered sex offender. The things I have in my head that I want to do to that woman…..

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

I think it depends.  Without knowing the situation I can’t really adivse.  Is it really HER problem… or are you being hypersensitive?  Are they causing you harm….or just annoying you?

 

If you’ve asked and they haven’t stopped it either means they aren’t willing to stop or they can’t stop.  Those are 2 different things, and should be dealt with accordingly.

The next step is for you to decide if it’s something that is a “dealbreaker”.  If it is, then YOU leave the relationship and all that that decision entails.  If it’s not then typically you have to suck it up and not be passive aggressive.

Post # 9
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

Give them detention Foot in Mouth

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Depends on who it is but I find a different way to tell/ask them. Not everyone responds the same way, not everyone hears things the same way.

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