(Closed) So…. What happened?

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 107
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2019

@krayzay87:  it was hilarious!

Post # 108
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381 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@krayzay87:  It was indeed. It had to be a fake post, no one is that gloriously funny. Like, Jerry Springer could not have found better entertainment. Hopefully she comes back!

Post # 109
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Bee Keeper

@EmilyInIdaho:  why do you hate men so much?

ETA: nvm, just saw where you and Boyfriend or Best Friend broke up.

Post # 111
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Honey bee

ummm….what?

Strangest thread I have ever seen. Almost might be the first thread I have ever seen with people flirting. So weird.

Post # 112
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@patchy:  “while on the surface it seems his spoiled, entitled wife is the problem, at the core of it I sense a lack of love. from both sides. as PPs have said, his wife is filling a void with her constant shopping and superficial lifestyle, especially since she apparently wasn’t always like this.

I don’t mean to attack you ryan, I’m sure you’re not a bad guy. I just don’t believe the fault lies entirely on her.”

I agree, but here’s why I can’t sympathise with her – Ryan tried counseling. Their counselor was a dud and he wanted to switch. And she refused. So whatever the original issues were, whatever caused everything, SHE was the one who decided that they’re not worth really dealing with. To me, the moment anyone dismisses counseling or the kind of counseling that works for both partners, the relationship is over because that’s them saying they don’t give a fuck.

Post # 113
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Talon:  +1.

Post # 114
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

It so weird for a RICH and Succesful man to come up here and talk to brides? I’m calling fake. I’ve met plenty of weathly succesful powerful men who would not troll the internet and stumble on a “wedding website” for divorce advice. Seems like someone has too much time on their hands to go about making stuff up. and if it is real, I would not want anything to do with a man who has nothing better to do than to talk to a bunch of brides to be on the internet, rather than ask his associates for advice, or his friends, family and peers. Even if he wanted some anonymity, why did he choose a bride website?? I have a HARD time believing such a “RICH” succesful man wouldnt have anything better to do with his time. I think whoever OP really is, he or she loves the attention. 

Post # 115
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Busy bee

@znowbird22:  His very first post was that he felt “tricked” into the marriage by her lying to him… Men’s logic – Marriage = Wedding… WeddingBee… Hey there’s ladies on here, maybe I can ask them for some advice. 

I’ve PMd with him, he’s not a fake, he’s not a troll. He’s just a guy in a really sticky situation and wanted some outsiders perspective, which in the end, is kind of why we’re all here. 

Post # 116
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013 - B&B

I’m super excited to follow this thread throughout my wednesday…

@vorpalette:  +1… I made it to 10:30 🙁 Ugh. I am so disappointed I missed this other thread they were talking about!

@distracts:  Their counselor was a dud and he wanted to switch. And she refused. +1

I have seen friends go through that… the one side of the relationship didn’t make the effort to go to counseling and wasn’t willing to even try sticking it out.. it was almost like after 1 month he went “welp this isnt working” and quit at it. Like, its gonna take more than a month!!! They are doing better now, but that was her breaking point: she warned him one last time about not showing up to counseling and he didn’t and next thing he knew his stuff was being thrown down the stairs in bags…..

@Ryan32:  For what it’s worth, I don’t think you’re “Fake”, (and I wish you the best) and whatever, even if you were, I like your sense of humor on the boards! Sorry some of it is coming at your own expense. Good luck!

Post # 117
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013 - B&B

@znowbird22:  I am sure some of the brides on here are super rich.. just because someone’s rich doesn’t mean they don’t like talking to all kinds of people! They’re people too, it’s not like they all think “Why would I converse with such LOWLY peasants when I have TONS of super rich people to talk to? Clearly our money makes our conversations BETTER”

And yes this is largely a wedding website, but we are on the Not Wedding Related boards… I google stuff a lot and am surprised when weddingbee pops up. Plus, maybe most of his family and associates know his wife and he wanted truly outside opinons. I think thats why alot of us come here, we want really unbiased opinions (ok, some don’t, THATS a whole other thread topic no one wants to bring up again) from strangers to get to the bottom of things!

Post # 118
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2019 - City, State

@paula1248:  american internet lmao!!! I couldn’t even handle that thread.

Post # 119
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Well this thread turned nauseating real fast.

Post # 120
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@Bostongrl25:  lol right??  First flirtatious I encounter I’ve seen on the bee too!

Post # 121
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2019 - City, State

@shesho:  what the… what is even happening in here. I feel like some of these posts should be done in PM’s. the bee version of “get a room!” lol. weirdest thing ever! lol …..but I wanna see so I came back Embarassed

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