Post # 1
We’re both catholic, maybe not great ones but thats not my question. Because of work, he now stays at my house at least 5 out of 7 days a week. He has his wardrobe here so he can leave for work from here. I do his laundry and prepare for his return each day. I worry about have made this convenient choice as I wonder if people/family will talk as though we lived together before we were married. Would you consider it that?
There are days about once a week that he goes home to gather his bills at his parents house. Weeks that he doesn’t his family facebooks me with “we miss you guys” and “keep in touch” Oh, let me also mention that his mother teaches catechism, and he has lived at home untill um well…me :/
Post # 3
Sorry you guys live together, if staying over that many days yep in my book you are living together.
Post # 4
I think you guys are living together. He stays with you most nights, plus his clothes are there.
Post # 5
Sounds like you’re living together. If it works for you, who cares what other people think? You’re adults, sometimes adults shack up.
Post # 6
Yeah…. his clothes are there, he spents most of the week there, you live together. I don’t know if you living together=sleeping together, but that is what anyone on the outside will assume, reguardless of what reality for you two is, if that is okay with you, then that is okay with you. But it kind of sounds like that isn’t the impression you want to give, and if that is not how you want to be perceived, then the best option is him not staying there, any nights.
Post # 7
I would say you live together.
I’m assuiming that if his family was going to say anything they would have done it by now, no? His parents obviously know he isn’t home 5 nights a week so it doesn’t seem to be a secret.
Post # 8
Yeah, I think this qualifies as living together.
Post # 9
@punkin83: you are living together. sorry. if that is not what you want sounds like you need to make some changes 🙁 Good luck
Post # 10
No doubt you are living together. For appearances sake I’m sure his if his Mom had an issue, she had it the first night he spent at your house and didn’t come home. Now she’s probably just used to it.