(Closed) So, when is it considered living together? we’re trying to keep up appearances

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Sorry you guys live together, if staying over that many days yep in my book you are living together. 

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I think you guys are living together. He stays with you most nights, plus his clothes are there. 

Post # 5
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Buzzing Beekeeper

Sounds like you’re living together. If it works for you, who cares what other people think? You’re adults, sometimes adults shack up.

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2011

Yeah…. his clothes are there, he spents most of the week there, you live together. I don’t know if you living together=sleeping together, but that is what anyone on the outside will assume, reguardless of what reality for you two is, if that is okay with you, then that is okay with you. But it kind of sounds like that isn’t the impression you want to give, and if that is not how you want to be perceived, then the best option is him not staying there, any nights. 

Post # 7
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Helper bee

I would say you live together.

I’m assuiming that if his family was going to say anything they would have done it by now, no?  His parents obviously know he isn’t home 5 nights a week so it doesn’t seem to be a secret. 

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Yeah, I think this qualifies as living together.

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

@punkin83:  you are living together. sorry. if that is not what you want sounds like you need to make some changes 🙁 Good luck

Post # 10
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

No doubt you are living together. For appearances sake I’m sure his if his Mom had an issue, she had it the first night he spent at your house and didn’t come home. Now she’s probably just used to it.

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