Soap Opera Family…Help!

posted 3 years ago in Family
Post # 2
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Bumble Beekeeper

It’s really sad when the grown-ups can’t act like grown-ups for even a few hours. I’m saying this as a divorced mom with future step-children. This is your day. They should suck it up and be there for you. 

I would plan the wedding I want, invite the people I want, make sure they understand how important their presence is and pray. Do you really think your mother would skip your wedding?

 

Post # 4
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Bumble Beekeeper

Have you talked to her about it? Would she feel as if you were forcing her to deal with her father or is that your mother’s spin on things?

Post # 5
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Newbee

Here’s the thing:  it’s YOUR AND YOUR SO’s day.  YOU AND YOUR SO INCLUDES *YOU*.  YOU want both parties to be at the wedding.  No problem, YOU invite both!  If one of them doesn’t show up, you can’t do anything about it as it is purely THEIR decision to act like squabbling children.  

DO NOT TAKE THE BITCH UP ON HER OFFER SHE’S MANIPULATING YOU

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