Post # 1
Hello Bees! Haven’t been on in a couple of weeks!
One of my bridesmaids wants to wear a little comb with little flowers in it. She has no particular one in mind, just that she saw one on tv with bridesmaids wearing it.
I heard from three of the others saying they’re cool with whatever I want to do. But to be honest the wedding’s in only 2 months and I’m exhausted, I’m done with picking things like that out.
Is it okay for her to wear a tiny comb with flowers and the others not? I really don’t care, if she wants to wear it it’s totally cool with me as long as it doesn’t look too awkward..
Post # 3
I think it would be fine. I’m actually letting my BMs choose their accessories & shoes because to make them all wear the same thing is just way too much for me and because their styles are all so different that it would be weird to me if they all wore the exact same thing. If you’re OK with it, I say do the same and let them all wear whatever they want.
Post # 4
There’s nothing wrong with the BMs not matching, but it might look odd if she’s got a hair accessory and the others don’t. Is she your maid of honour? Sometimes the maid of honour wears something slightly different so she’ll stand out as special. If not it might look like she is.
You could ask all your BMs to get something nice for their hair (if you’re paying for everything, you can ask them to buy them and you’ll pay them back). Or you could ask this Bridesmaid or Best Man to get flower combs for all the BMs and pay her back. Either way it won’t be any effort on your part!
Post # 5
It’s a possibility she could be the only one, and no she’s not the Maid/Matron of Honor.
I’m waiting to hear from the other two. If they say they’d like to wear some sort of hair piece, I’ll give the okay on this. But if not I’ll tell her no.
Post # 6
I think you answered your own question in your post, haha. If you don’t care and don’t feel like making any more decisions, then let them accessorize themselves.
Post # 7
So I’ve decided they’ll all be wearing their hair without hair pieces.