- 8 years ago
- Wedding: December 2012
Back from my previous post. Went to a friend’s wedding and realized virtually all my BF’s friends are married or engaged. Felt like we were the illegitimate couple on the boat! Had guests ask me how long we’ve been together. I replied “3ish, nearing 4 years”. They gave me responses of pity!
I am nearing 26 and he’s 28 as of now. All these friends are in-between our ages, and the bride I believe is 24. I don’t think we’re stalling. I imagine we’re moving along. Just a bit.
After the wedding we did have the talk. Talk about finances. Talk about what we plan to do. He went on saying that he doesn’t dig weddings, then proceeded to ask me what I thought about a simple ceremony on a cruise. It got me excited.
He said it’d be nice to have a small ceremony with just some family and friends, exactly what I want too! I asked him if he’d like to get engaged first and his response was “I don’t know”.
Ugh…is this a tact time to drop him clues about a ring?