(Closed) Some marriages were destined to fail…

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 21
1123 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@RenoSweeney24:  Haha yes, if there were dead butterflies I would have probably cried the whole day, I’m a softie when it comes to animals, not to mention my native american name is Wondering Butterfly so if a bunch of butterflies died on my wedding day I’d definately be freaked out lol

Post # 23
494 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I went to a wedding that was outside and it poured rain all. day. long. They didn’t have a backup plan, but there were tents. The ground was like, ankle deep of wet mud – even under the tents. The bride’s dress was black from the bottom up to her knees with mud. They had a table at the back that had about 50 bottles of bug spray for people to use. And it was FREEZING cold. 

The marriage only lasted about 6 months. I always think back and think all that was a sign. 

Post # 24
4438 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2013 - Harbourfront Grand Hall

@RenoSweeney24:  I think I remember a butterfly release going terribly wrong on 4 weddings….!  How do you plan on doing that without looking up some videos of it happening… and consequently finding videos of those that went terribly wrong, like this one!

Post # 25
2564 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

This reminds me of the SatC episode where Charlotte gets married and just about everything goes wrong and she’s freaking out when Carrie reminds her she had a perfect wedding to Trey and that marriage was a disaster, and so maybe the one with Harry would be perfect since the wedding was such a mess. LOL πŸ™‚

Post # 28
849 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

Lol wow, I’m just laughing at this thread. The only example I can contribute is my aunt’s first wedding. I was about 12 years old and I was a junior bridesmaid.

On the morning of the wedding, I woke up with a queasy stomach. I had that feeling all day and I felt like I was on the verge of throwing up. 

When we were taking pictures before the ceremony with the bridal party, I suddenly turned to my mother who was standing beside me and said “Mom, I think I’m going to throw up…”

And I did. Right on the aisle and all over my dress. I am amazed that none of it landed on the other bridesmaids lol. 

My mother, my other aunt and my grandmother then spent the next twenty minutes cleaning me up as well as the aisle. After I was cleaned up, I walked down the aisle clutching a brown barf bag around my bouquet of flowers. Instead of standing with the other bridesmaids during the ceremony, I just sat down in the first pew and watched. 

Then I made a very brief appearance at the reception then slept the rest of the day in the car lol.

My aunt likes to laugh about it and say that it was an omen that she never should have gotten married to her first husband. She ended up eloping for her second wedding and now she’s very happy. But it would have been awful yet still funny, if I had gotten sick again at her second wedding lol. 

Post # 29
9681 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

@RenoSweeney24:  I’m not superstitious, so while those things could be seen as bad omens, I don’t believe in omens πŸ˜› I think marriages that don’t have trust, communication, and respect are destined to fail (or at least have very unhappy, resentful people “trapped” in them).

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