Post # 1
My bf and I are going on a little vacation together in a few days. I am definitely not expecting anything to happen there except some r and r along with major tan time.
However: Everyone around me is telling me that he will not ask on our trip for sure. However, everyone around me knows 🙁 It is like everyone is in on the joke but me.
Even one of the boys said that he knows approximately 5 things…but he can’t tell me any of them… Even my closest friend knows:(
I am going nutso!
Just want to have a little sparkle and figure out how next summer will play out. I refuse to plan/think about a wedding without a ring.
Post # 3
I really don’t think that’s fair for people who “know” to tease you with it. I’m going through the same thing. My sister knows when my Boyfriend or Best Friend is going to propose and I wish I didn’t even know that. It just seems mean to do that to someone.
Post # 4
aww that sucks! I hate when people tease you like that!
Nobody knows when my boy is going to ask – yet we are going away in a week to Fiji for a wedding and everyone keeps saying “oh he is totally going to ask!” and its like “nooo hes not – its a holiday for his sisters wedding!”
As annoying as it is – just try and shut them out. Just say “Well I dont know anything and I would like it to remain a surprise!” so hopefully they get the hint and stop bugging you!
Post # 5
Everyone thinks they know when they think things will happen, but most of the time they don’t have a clue. My BF’s mom and sister was insistent that my Boyfriend or Best Friend would ask at a crawfish boil we had at our house A YEAR AND A HALF AGO!! Nothing happened that day or even since. Don’t get your hopes up from what people tell you, or don’t tell you. You will only get disappointed if nothing happens.
Post # 6
Oh my word, I would go CRAZY if everyone around me knew and I didn’t! The good news is that he definitely has a plan in mind and kinda needs to follow through with it… or else he’ll have all your friends and family upset! 🙂
I have no idea what I would do other than try to act normal, and just make sure you take a camera with you everywhere… you never know when a little somethin somethin will appear that is camera worthy!! 🙂
Post # 7
Do you guys think that EVERYONE is trying to throw me off and it may happen while we are on our trip?
Post # 8
I wouldn’t worry if they are or not, to be honest. It might happen, it might not, but you don’t want to go through your whole vacation expecting something. You won’t be able to relax and if it doesn’t happen, you could be really disappointed… not fun!!!
If I were in your position, I would do everything I could to convince myself that it was not happening on vacation. 🙂 Then, if it does, YAY!!! And if not, you’ll still enjoy it!
It’s not easy… I know… ugh… I hope it happens soon for you either way though! How exciting!!