(Closed) somebody PLEASE PLEASE tell me it is the stress…(possible TMI)

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - The Gables Inn, Santa Rosa, CA

It definitely sounds like stress to me– I missed your previous post (?) regarding the fight– but it sounds like there’s a lot going on there in terms of emotional and mental strains.  

I’d POAS just in case, but I wouldn’t worry too much about it.  You definitely seem to have plenty on your plate as it is; no need to borrow worry. 

Post # 4
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

ahhhhh. I feel for you. I just read your last post too about the 70K reception. If I were you, I would POAS just to set my mind at ease. But it could be stress. I had a 60 day cycle because of stress which delayed my ovulation by several weeks. I chart, so its easier for me to tell if it was just delayed ovulation, annovulatory, etc.

POAS girl!

Post # 5
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915 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

The stress of wedding planning plus the stress of being late can do wonky things to a girl.

You should definitely take a pregnancy test, if nothing else just to know where you actually stand.

Pat yourself on the back for biting your tongue last night, but also realize that the two things really have nothing to do with each other. 

Post # 6
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@mayflowerbride13:  Surprised

Take a test.  Report back.  Keeping my fingers crossed for ya.  That would be bad timing, to say the least.

Post # 9
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@mayflowerbride13:  LOL.  Well, at least he had the right reaction about that.  Who knows?  It could get you out of having to have the big wedding.  Bless your heart.  🙂

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@mayflowerbride13:  In light of everything else going on with your wedding planning, having a fight over the possibility that you might be pregnant really screams “this couple is in trouble” to me. 

I think you and your fiance need to put your wedding on hold and sort out all the other issues in your relationship before worrying about anything else. I’m not trying to be mean so please don’t take it that way. To an observer, it doesn’t seem like the two of you are much of a team when it comes to any of these big, important things, and that you express your emotions aggressively while he shuts down.  I think you have a huge gap in your expectations of yourselves, each other, and your relationship, and I think there’s a big disconnect in communication styles.s. You also allow one source of contention to bleed into another: your stress and worry over possibly being pregnant shouldn’t be a trigger for another fight about the wedding cost.  These trouble areas  need to be fixed so you can have a healthy, nurturing relationship.

 

Post # 12
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915 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@mayflowerbride13:  Admittedly, I missed the original fight post, but people (guys and girls) have odd expectations sometimes about weddings from what they got used to growing up (or even some idea they’ve always had about their wedding). I’m not sure it’s the same as actually raising a child, though I take your point about the money management.

Post # 13
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

@mayflowerbride13:  I think it is likely just the stress. Hell, I’d be stressed if my wedding day was amounting to $70K.

But yes, take a test to be sure. Buy one ASAP and just get it over with.

Post # 15
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12973 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I would bet it’s stress from your other posts, but POAS just to be safe!!!

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee

you really have nothing to loose, buy an over the counter test and try it out. worse (or best) case sinario you find out you are pregnant,,, but your mind is at least at east again … other case sinareo you are not pregnant and again your mind is at ease… 

go poas, 

get a massage/take a hot bath

re-evaluate your priorities

breath

everything works out just fine in the end… if it isn’t fine it isn’t the end. 

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