Post # 32
I had to do the same thing to one of my friends who would not stop asking. She was driving me crazy. Now that I’m “out” she swears she knew the whole time and didn’t buy any of my lies.
I felt a little bad lying to people, but DH and I made the decision to wait until 12 weeks to tell anyone. If you’re not ready, then lie. Nine times out of ten, people will understand once you start announcing.
Post # 33
I had a very nosy coworker who was more interested in my period cycle and asking me constantly if we were trying/ I was pregnant, etc, than she was with her own work. At first I kind of felt like lying would jinx me somehow but then I learned that people that have no respect for your privacy or no social filter are putting you on the spot and put you in the position of having to lie – so, lie, lie, lie. And share news when you’re ready.