(Closed) Someone else wants to use my ceremony space on the same day…

posted 5 years ago in Ceremony
  • poll: would you let someone else use your ceremony space on the same day?
    yes : (6 votes)
    8 %
    no : (42 votes)
    56 %
    are you crazy? : (24 votes)
    32 %
    not sure : (3 votes)
    4 %
  • Post # 3
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    9649 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2019

    Well ultimately it is your uncle’s decision, as it is his property, but if he is leaving the decision up to you, I would say no. It is your family’s space, and the guys are getting ready there.

    Post # 4
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    4771 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    It depends. What time is the other wedding at? If it is early enough like 10 or 11 or after yours like 6, I don’t see the issue.

    Hey maybe you could even split the costs of the decorations if you have similar tastes!

    Post # 5
    Member
    3572 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    Nope.  This is way too much in my opinion.  She can pick another day.

    Post # 6
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    8424 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2012

    @wisher558:  I personally wouldn’t like the idea….but I know how I am and that  would stress me out like crazy!! If her wedding is first then it would have to be cleaned up and is here a professional crew coming in to do that?  My thoughts are this is a personal residence….who is cleaning up the bathrooms and clearing out allthe trash, etc betw the weddings? What if it isn’t done on time is what I’d be stressing over…..The only way I’d be ok with it f my wedding were first! But thats just my opinion!

     

     

     

     

    Post # 7
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    822 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    Ceremonies are short so there’s plenty of time in a day to do two ceremonies.  I would do it if she’s willing to split the cost of flowers, chairs, and other decorations.

    Post # 8
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    1670 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    That was one of the number one things I looked for in a venue – that there would be absolutely zero other brides there on that day. Even in another room. I think that if you are able to say no (not sure of the situation) I would say no.

    Post # 9
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    3226 posts
    Sugar bee

    I’m a laid-back, whatever goes kind of person, but I wouldn’t allow this. If there wedding was before yours, what if they decorated it and decided not to clean it up? You would be stuck cleaning it up and decorating it. If it was after yours then I would be more okay with it.

    Post # 10
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    1150 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    I would only do this if their wedding is after yours. I wouldn’t want to take the chance of the grass getting ripped up or something happening to my setup by having the other wedding earlier.

    Budget the time you need for ceremony and pictures, add a half an hour, and say she can have the venue starting then.

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