- 7 years ago
No point to this really, just needed to let it out somewhere.
For the past week or so my bf has been acting a little strange. He just recently built a new computer for himself and finished setting it up 2 days ago, for some reason he has put a password on his computer. Now I’m not too concerned about this simply because I already know what the password is, I just find it strange because he didn’t have one on his old computer.
A couple of days ago he had to buy a new battery for his watch and could only get it at a jewelry store. I was waiting in the car while he was in the store and when he came out (20 mins later) he started telling me that they have some really nice things in there that I should go check out one day. So I went on their website and sent him a picture of one that I thought was really nice, but it was two tone gold. He said that he saw that one in the store in white gold and it was really really nice but over budget, so I dropped it and didn’t bring it up again. Randomly a day later he says “So it costs X amount of dollars”. I had no idea what he was talking about since it had nothing to do with the converstion we were previously having. So I asked what he was talking about and he just gave me a look like “really? You should know what I am talking about.” and then it clued in that he was talking about the ring.
And lately he has been a little distant. He isn’t as snuggly as he was a couple weeks ago and seems to be lost in space, like he has a lot on his mind. One minute he will hardly notice/speak to me and the next he is all lovey again, it is really frustrating! I just assumed it was because he was preoccupied with building his new computer, but I’m not 100% sure on that. Whenever he is messing around on his computer he always asks me if there is a wedding show on that I can watch and seems disappointed when there isn’t. He even commented on an episode of Friends that I was watching when Monica and Chandler get engaged and said “that’s a good line, I wish I could come up with stuff like that” when Chandler was proposing.
Blah! I’m really not trying to read into anything too much but it all seems so strange! It is really not like him to be acting like this and saying these things.
Thanks for letting me vent, just needed to get it out.
Oops forgot to add, I also found a business card for the jewelry store he went to, no info on it just the card. But I’m probably not supposed to know about that lol. And also asked what the date will be in 3 months so I told him and asked him why he wanted to know and he said “oh, no reason” GRRR!!!