(Closed) Someone Help Me Please!

posted 6 years ago in Shoes
Post # 3
82 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

My first thought is, if all your bm’s are wearing the same height of heel, they could be wearing ballerina flats and still have the same height difference.

I also wonder if there’s more going on than just the shoes, I don’t think any of my bm’s would deek out over this type of thing. And it totally sucks that you have helped so much in purchasing her dress and shoes. I think u just need to have a heart to heart and see if there’s more to it than the shoes. You could also compramise that during the ceremony/photos she wear the shoes you picked and then maybe do a change at the reception since nobody will be paying attention and she will be more comfortable!

Good luck!


Post # 4
46607 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

A good shoemaker can shorten the heels but there is a limitation as to how much they can be shortened.

I would present this as an option to her but only after she first pays you for the dress and the heels.

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