Post # 1
WE’RE GETTING MARRIED IN 16 DAYS!!! Everyone tells me it all falls into place, and I know deep down it will, but no one is even really asking if I need any help right now…kind of frustrating but I guess I can’t bitch because I’m not the type to ask for help, and to be honest I’m so overwhelmed right now I’m not even sure what I would need them to do! I guess I just need some support right now, or even maybe just some interest in what the hell is going on from my girls.
Post # 3
@MamaMegs721: Aw hun, I am sure it’s not fun right now! But if you need help, ASK! Seriously! Chin up though, you are days away from marrying your love, and living happily ever after. You’re going to be just fine!
Post # 4
Why are you feeling stressed out? Are you planning a large wedding on your own without help?? 🙁 I hope you feel better
Post # 5
Learning from experience ask for help.
Clear your head, sit down and start going through each area of the wedding and write a mini checklist for each of what is left to do. Get your bridesmaids etc together and discuss the tasks with them and then allocate tasks to people.
You’ll feel much better knowing others are helping you out. Best of luck and congratulations.
Post # 6
I’m sure people want to help, they just don’t want to barge in. Make a big checklist of tasks, call your girls, and start delegating anything you can!
Post # 7
Even if you only delegate a little, making a list and then crossing things off it will feel SO good!
Post # 8
Please have two martini’s one for me and one for you! I’m getting married in 23 days. I can only just pray that things work out for you hon. My fiance keeps telling me everything falls into place…but I just got to take charge. Plan B’s and letting certain stuff go! Good luck hun!
Post # 9
Thanks ya’ll! I am going to take that advice…make a list and just start delegating….the little stuff right now that would be great to have but isn’t finished I’m just going to forget about. And I’ll drink a martini or two this weekend lol. I’ve pretty much done all the planning for this wedding and honestly no one’s really asked how things were coming along this whole process…my feelings are kind of hurt, but I know how life is and everyone has stuff going on. I’m the last of my friends to get married, so I suppose I’m feeling a bit frustrated because I was there for whatever they needed when it was their day and I just really haven’t felt that from them throughout the process. They did put together an amazing shower and I very much appreciate that, but the little things throughout the past few months just haven’t been there. Oh well! It will be a great day and IT WILL all fall into place.