(Closed) SOMEONE please help me!!!!! :( :(

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 63
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3828 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Thank goodness. I’m glad you were direct with him about it.  I would still be weary in a situtation like this just to be on the safe side. But his explanation makes some sense. 

How about he just delete his nasty photos if he doesnt want people seeing them on his phone?

Post # 64
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415 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I’m really glad he has a good reason, but honestly I think you should ask to see his phone bill, just explain it’s for peace of mind. It sounds like he would understand and not be upset about it, and that way you can be positive he is telling the truth.

I hate to be giving negative advice, but this is coming from someone who was cheated on, and when I found weird texts he had a great story, and I totally believed him sighed in relief.  Turned out he wasn’t just cheating, he had another GF!

I’m sure that’s not the case here, but if you’re moving in together I just think you should consider a little extra caution.  That’s a big step!

Post # 65
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1293 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Awe 🙁 I have been through something similar before so I feel your pain, but I confronted the situation with him instead of trying to trip him into lying or something.

I agree with others, be direct with him and honest about how it makes you feel. That will result in a better outcome I think than trying to catch him or snoop even more

Post # 66
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

OH! I just saw your update! It sounds like everything is fine! I am so happy that you dont have to have all of this on your mind.. its a crappy feeling 🙁

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