- 7 years ago
So: living arrangement wise, things are going much better. We have vastly different scheduals and usually one is up while the other is trying to sleep. Me and SO have gotten more sleep and have more “us” time as well as more personal time.
It makes me scared for when we’re married: what will we do?
SO says we’ll look for a house that has one bedroom far away from the rest of the hosue, put blackout curtains and if need be I’ll swtich to the AM shift. But that’s a year+ away.
Even SO said that he feels a lot less stressed. He can have his boys over without worrying about waking me, and he’s over here all the time that I’m awake until right before work, so I don’t miss out on time with him. Even though we’ve been together for a while, maybe we still needed our own space becasue of my job. I do know that I’m going to start putting in for an AM transfer asap (sometimes takes 2 years! eek!) becasue that would solve the problems too. This was just a quick fix. I love SO so much and I’m glad he was willing and ready to work stuff out with me. It started becasue of marriage- but it turned into the space we needed as a couple!
His mom called me todayand said that on his trip to Texas: it’s NOT a baby visiting trip…it’s a RING BUYING TRIP…and she wanted to know deets to help him out!!!
I told her everything and then told her to NOT keep me informed and NOT to tell SO. He’s Mr. It-Needs-To-Be-A-Suprise and this would kill it for him
I can’t believe he planned a vaca just to ring shop!!!!!! EE!!!!!!
I love you bees!! you keep me grounded!