- 6 years ago
A little back story:
We went ring shopping in November and it’s been on layaway ever since. It’s finally come to the point where the ring will be paid off by the end of this month. He has been planning the proposal with his friends and is really excited about it (hence why I know about the planning process) He says it will definitely happen in February.
I’m going back to work in February after being on maternity leave for the past year. I will be working weekends only because I want to stay home with our son during the week (he is a long haul driver so he is only home friday to sunday, the rest of the week it’s just me and baby B). I asked him if I need to book any weekends off in February and says “Nope, you can work whatever weekend, doesn’t matter”
I’m confused by this. If he isn’t home during the week, and I’m working every weekend, when does he plan on proposing? If he hadn’t told me he was planning some big thing I would just assume he would do it after work one weekend while we’re at home, but now I dont know what to think.
There is one more thing…
He is taking some time off this week and taking me to a concert on Wednesday night. We’ve been planning that for a month, it’s not something we normally do since we became parents. Our friends will be there too and I have a sneaking suspicion that this is it. Despite the fact that he has been telling me he wont get the ring til the end of the month and provided a vague February timeline for proposing. If he had any chance of suprising me, this would be it.
I’m not gonna be terribly disappointed if my theory doesn’t pan out, but I have the strongest feeling about it… What do the Bees think?