(Closed) Something of my fiances was stolen from my house. Can you read these details?

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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5977 posts
Bee Keeper

I’d sure be super angry about this, but unless you want to cause family conflict, I wouldn’t tell your uncle that he owes your damages for the cost of the chain. I think it’s just going to cause a lot of issues. 

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I don’t think you can blame your uncle for this, he didn’t know that this guy would take anything and I’m sure he wouldn’t of brought him to your house had he known. It’s not fair to blame him. Why was he in your house alone or left to wander through your personal items? And ‘those junkies’ are doing the best they can, they are very sick and don’t think right. Yeah, he shouldn’t have stolen from you but he’s addicted to drugs…that’s not something he can control.

Post # 6
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

@2PeasinaPod:  Totally agree.

OP – while it sucks, telling your uncle that he owes you for the chain will do nothing but cause family drama.

Why was the guy left around your house unsurpervised anyway?  That’s on you guys – not your uncle.

Post # 8
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

@punkin83:  I would never allow someone I didn’t know to have free reign of my home.  Even if they were not known to be criminal.

Post # 9
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Bumble bee

SO was selling his house.  I had a friend help me pick up something from the garage the night before it was supposed to close.  We needed a truck and she said she had someone to help.  Well, the someone was a friend of a friend.  The next day SO calls asking who the h#ll I let in his house because the chandelier in the dining room was missing.  I couldn’t prove this friend of a friend saw me hide the key and came back that night and stole the chandelier.  We had to provide a new chandelier to the buyers.  I let someone in AN EMPTY HOUSE and they still found something to steal…

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

If he sold it to a pawn shop, not sure about other states but in CA we have to hold it for 30 days and report everything we take in to the local PD. So i would run to the Police and tell them that this was stolen and that you think he took it (because they have to take ID as well) and see what happens. But that’s why we hold stuff, to make sure it’s not stollen so it may not be melted quite yet.

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