(Closed) Something you wish you could say to someone right now…

posted 12 years ago in Emotional
Post # 182
317 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

To (bridesmaid):

I don’t appreciate your saying negative things.  I feel like you wouldn’t have done that to anyone else.  I am going to have to ignore you at the wedding.  It’s not for you to say that my FH was hurt b/c his brother isn’t coming — it’s not true and you don’t know the whole story.  He really is happy that his brother isn’t.  I said something and then you come out and oppose it disrespectfully.  What the hell was that?  I am not going to let you fuck with my wedding.  Stop with your dominating personality.  All that matters is (FH), too bad if you don’t like my plan to spend all my time with him at the wedding and not you…I’m not even going to look at you.  Don’t take out your misery, jealousy, and anger that I threw out (other bridesmaid) on me.  I let you get to me at times last night but that’s done and over.  Now I know how you’re going to be and I’ll be setting a boundary between you and I.

Post # 183
5259 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

Dear Maid/Matron of Honor:

You give “MOH” a bad name.  What was I thinking asking you to do it?  I only did it because my best friend had to be at work all summer in the wilderness.  Picking out a ridiculous dress without having me approve it and me having to purchase one for you is one thing, and you not being there for me as I have been dealing with everything going on with my family and cancelling my big weddng is one thing, and you making promises I know you won’t keep is one thing, and you not investing in me is one thing, and you having me over to invest in you is one thing, and you not doing anything involving my wedding at all is one thing, but you causing me stress, lack of sleep and worry 2 weeks before my wedding because you don’t like my change in plans -that we had to get a limo instead of renting that MB- is unexcusable.  After all I have been through, is it too much to ask you to go wtih the flow?  I know you must be jealous, because you constantly ask how much Fiance makes, and why I always have new shoes, but this wedding isn’t about you.  If you could just operate with a small amount of class, selflessness, or just basic communication skills and tact or responsiveness or responsibility…  I have been the best friend you will ever have, and you would have realized that you were always going to get a chance to ride in my limo. 

Post # 184
3856 posts
Honey bee

@Schrutebeets: what? I’m lost… I must’ve missed something!

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