(Closed) Something Your FI does when you're PMSing that drives you Bonkers!!!

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 47
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I feel like he TRIES to pick fights with me, but he claims he doesn’t. So annoying. It’s like he has to dispute EVERYTHING I say when I’m on my period.

 

Post # 48
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

Well, I think it’s the way he leaves stuff on everything (I do too, but when I’m PMSing I clean it up, and expect him to too!). And the fact that he doesn’t clean the bathroom (I like it much cleaner than he does, so I always end up cleaning it). Usually I don’t mind that super much, because he does a lot of things around the house that I never do, so it seems pretty fair, but when I’m PMSing and my nose is 3X as sensitive as it usually is (and I normally have a very sensitive nose) and the whole bathroom just stinks like pee, I get irritated! Now, our bathroom is never gross enough to smell like pee to anyone with a normal nose, or even to stink to ME when I don’t have PMS, but at a certain time of the month it just seems sooooo gross.

Also, I find his habit of washing his hands not quite thoroughly enough super annoying at that time. He’ll wash up when he gets home from work in the bathroom sink, which is white, and there will be drops of grey, dirty water that sit on the surface of the sink and dry out, and get glued there by the soap residue. He doesn’t use enough water to wash that down the drain. UGH!

Post # 49
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607 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@Mrs. Dragon: is your Fiance a great cook? Mine loves to cook and is very good at it…he also does this to me constantly. He will even sometimes add ingrediants while I’m cooking. It drives me insane!! 

 

Now I only cook when he’s not home.

Post # 50
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

@Reeniero: Eeeeew, I can relate about the gray cat hairs on everything. We have 2 cats and their hair gets EVERYWHERE– that’s something that really annoys me when I have PMS and my period. I hate having my clothes and the chair cushions and the bathroom counter have cat hair on it, particularly at that time. 😛

Post # 51
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911 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013 - The Down Town Club, Philadelphia

@Creiddylad:  Girl, I feel you. We have a cat and 2 dogs. And I have long curly hair.

Hair is everywhere around here.

I think we pay our housekeeper just to clean up hair.

So GROSS.

Post # 52
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377 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Got another leg jerker here. It drives me CRAZY sometimes! Also every morning he eats the same thing. Toast with honey and peanut butter. And every morning I clean up crumbs and this sticky ‘honey knife’. Oh the problems that honey knife has caused. Sometimes I just lose it and want to gut him with that knife. I bought a little spoon holder thing. I leave a special plate out, a paper towel, a cutting board. Nothing, oh nothing will stop him from leaving that sticky knife perched accross the corner of the sink . I’ve realized unless I get up and make the toast, this is a part of my life now.

Post # 53
Bee
615 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012 - Mother of the Bride\'s residence

@Khalessi3:  Oh, he’s a good cook but I’m decent too and I will never learn if he keeps butting in! 😉 His dad does the SAME thing and it enrages me to the point that I have started literally walking away from the stove while saying “If you wanna cook, go for it.”

Post # 54
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@Mrs. Dragon:   yes me too!!  I am a perfectly capable cook, and he’s the type that can invent things on the spot with stuff he finds in the fridge/cabinet. 

His mom will even say “see leave her alone, she can do it”.

 

he can’t help himself. It makes me  really mad.

 

another thing he does…is he likes to clean out the “fridge” and will throw out things of mine that he thinks are old or that I no longer want.

 

Post # 55
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952 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Breathe.

LOL poor guy. Seriously though post-baby its PMS x 1000 with the hormone changes. It sucks 🙁

Post # 56
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

My SO won’t wash the dishes “correctly” to me when I’m PMSing. It sounds so stupid but I get so anal about EVERY part of the dish being washed with soap & water & rinsed off completely & put in the 2nd sink to dry off. I’ve touched plastic containers that feel oily or glasses that still have crap on them & it drives me crazy! Also I hate using the sponge to scrape off extra food & then using the same sponge to clean the dishes without like super cleaning the sponge first. If it has food on it & you don’t rinse it off well first, all you’re doing is spreading the food around!! I used to do the dishes every time because I would get so annoyed. Now we have a scrubber thing that thank GOD we use to scrub the food off & the sponge to wash which has made things much better lol

@LaCroix: I do this too! For some reason I expect chocolate when I’m PMSing…nothing will make my night (and my SO’s as a result) better than if she brings me chocolate when she comes home from work! Last night I got an almond joy bar and I was in heaven!

Post # 57
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2013

OMG I love this.  Some of these are pretty funny and gave me a good laugh.

My Fi?  Oh man, where do I start…

Some of the things he does already annoy me and I have to bite my tongue not to say anything because I have a tendency to be not so nice about it.  However, when I’m PMSing?  Totally different ballgame.  I don’t care!!!

1.  When we are laying in bed watching tv, he will bite his finger nails and then chew them after they are bitten off.  If the sound of the biting of the nails isn’t bad enough, he then has to chew then.  Drives me absolutely insane.  Not only is annoying but toally disgusting! 

2.  After he has eaten something, he will suck his teeth and then continue to chew…LOUDLY!!  UGH…. I’m pmsing today, so he better watch out!

 

 

 

Post # 58
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5272 posts
Bee Keeper

Chews! Sometimes he sounds like a cow eating grass in the field and it drives me insane when I’m PMSing lol!

Post # 59
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2838 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Loud eating noises get me every time.

Post # 60
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495 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

@SapphireSun:  ”Im mad because you’re annoying” lmao this is exactly it! 

Post # 61
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2493 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

When we kiss he’ll lick my top lip really sexually, alluding to oral sex. He does it on purpose to get me riled up… such a tease!

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