(Closed) Sometime WB makes me feel unspecial

posted 7 years ago in Weddingbee
Post # 3
Member
2854 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Uh oh. But you know what? None of us is going to have YOUR wedding. Which is going to make it entirely yours and completely unique and absolutely perfect.

Right?

Post # 4
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853 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Sometimes I do. .Don’t worry, I think a lot of bees feel that way at times. Just like ring envy, there’s dress envy, venue envy, etc! Especially if we are insecure to begin with. Cheer up, and try to enjoy what you have! There will always be someone with something bigger, better, etc. is the way I see it. I hope you feel better soon!

Post # 5
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5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

Anyone else feel this way

no because i embrace how tacky i am.  there was no class involved from how i got the ring to how we married but looking back we laugh about it a lot and loved everything about it

im sure you day will be wonderful!

Post # 6
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1024 posts
Bumble bee

The most important thing is that you and your Fiance are happy with your day. Don’t compare yourself to others – do what feels right for you two! 

Post # 8
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1024 posts
Bumble bee

@Miss LusterDust:  There will always be the what-ifs and the feeling that things could be “better” – at some point we need to make a call. I’m a bit of a perfectionist and I like to ensure I’m making the right decisions so I understand where you’re coming from. Those feelings will probably always be there as part of your mind chatter, but listen to your heart whispers. — I hope that made sense? (Not sure if that helps?)

Post # 9
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287 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

How boring would life be if everything we did/got was the same as everyone else…

That being said, it’s normal to feel envy when you see something you wish you had or could do but totally not worth letting it make you feel insecure. You’re the only one comparing your wedding to anyone else’s.

Post # 10
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1829 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

@eloping:   hahahahaha your posts always make me laugh!!!!    DH and I are the same way, except we fully embrace our nerdiness and we LOVE. IT.  

OP, don’t compare yourself to others.  One of the nice things about this board is that we have people here from all walks of life with all kinds of different circumstances.  Just because someone else is doing something amazing doesn’t mean it would be right for you, nor does it mean that what you’re doing is any less special or important. Enjoy your day and don’t worry about everyone else!

Post # 12
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1519 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

In life, you can’t compare yourself to others. This isn’t a contest. Relax

Post # 13
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7606 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

It’s the booze talking. 😉

Try to be happy with the choices you make!  Who knows, there may be someone looking at all YOUR stuff (dress/ring/etc.) and wishing theirs was more like yours.

Post # 13
Member
1429 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@Miss LusterDust:  I feel this way sometimes. Yet I’m addicted to the bee. LOL

Post # 15
Member
305 posts
Helper bee

i would post that i had sardines and crackers for lunch if it made you feel any better.  because i did. i also need to take  a shower and i didn’t put on any make up today.  the most exciting thing to happen to me today was the mail came.  and i got to rip up a couple of credit card offers.  all of this is true.

the point is, nobody posts about mundane shit like this. but everyone’s life is mundane to some degree.

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