(Closed) Sometimes I feel like he loves his misstress more than me.

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Omg, yes! Thank goodness he sold his though. I sometimes hated that thing w/ a passion. There were many a night I wanted to chuck it out the window ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 5
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2790 posts
Sugar bee

Yes he has a few. Their names are softball, wrestling, baseball and football. Currently it is wrestling and I wish he wouldn’t talk about her nonstop like he does because honestly I could do with less talk. He coaches so he is with her every single day sometimes for hours if he has a match far away.

You learn to love it I guess. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

I just got a five minute call from Fiance. He was at the game store, where he spends 1/3 days. One of them is at work, then he gets two off, one of which I get to see him, and the other one goes to the game store to play his trading card game. It’s not that I mind the amount of time I see him, but it concerns me that I get the same amount of time as the people at the store :P. 

Post # 8
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2808 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Yup. My Fiance has a mistress named “Starcraft 2.” She’s very demanding.

Post # 9
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1251 posts
Bumble bee

I thought I got lucky by finally finding a guy who didn’t play video games, but instead he watches sports, more sports, plays fantasy EVERYTHING (Fantasy Fishing? wtf.) Also, I am a Golf Widow all summer.

Most of the time I am happy that I have lots of time to hang out with my ladies and get other stuff done, but sometimes I want to love on him and his is too busy doing some sports related thing. 

But I am still happy that he doesn’t play video games. My ex used to be surrounded by Mountain Dew Bottles and pizza boxes as he played Halo for days.

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

My FI’s dad built him a gaming computer for his birthday a few months ago.. She has affectionately been named “Cindy”… At some point in undergrad, after we had been together for about a year, my Fiance would always joke that his “other girlfriend” was going to come over to keep him company if I wasn’t going to come over that night, trying to get me to change my mind & come, things like that.. well, all of our friends went along with this and this “other girlfriend” of his got the name Cindy.  Even now 4 years later, it’s a running joke in our group of friends, and even his parents know about it, so his dad dubbed the computer “Cindy”.. so Cindy is his other mistress.

It makes for a good laugh, though, when he’ll call me on his way home from work and ask me “Hey can you turn Cindy on so she’s all ready for me when I get home?”… haha.  So “Cindy” the gaming machine is his mistress.  He’s pretty good about stopping to eat dinner & watch 1 of our TV shows on Netflix or something if I’ve cooked, and getting off the computer early enough at night so we can watch a movie or our TV  shows before we go to bed… so I really can’t complain! 

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@artwyopie: If she wants to be sneaky, she can always flip the breaker switch and turn the power off :).

 

@ILikePink: I think I would rather have video games than sports :P. Of course, I actually like video games and I hate sports, lol :).

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 1991

@ILikePink: Your ex sounds just like FI’s roommate.

Fiance goes in bursts where he is a slave to the xbox, or he doesn’t really give a rip.  Basically, if someone turns it on, he’ll play, but he doesn’t always choose it himself.  I don’t really mind, though.  He’ll play, I sleep or plan the wedding.  And if he doesn’t like what I plan, well then I guess it’s just too dang bad. ๐Ÿ˜‰

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I’m a Football Sunday widow!!LOL He is not available sunday during football season.  I used to fight tooth and nail but I eventually came to the conclusion that I should accept the inevitable!

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Yep, he has quite a few mistresses. And has even taken on a “second wife” in the form of his best friend that he stays up with half the night enjoying his mistresses with.

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