(Closed) Sometimes I just wanna post this on my facebook…

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
Member
543 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Oh man, that would make me angry too. It’s so passive-aggressive and presumptuous. (Not what you want to post, but what people are doing to you!)

Post # 4
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529 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

This can turn into a fun post:

Dear Mother-In-Law:

Back right off ! I conceded to you for the wedding but I am a grown, married woman now so post one more hurtful thing on my wall and I will BLOCK YOU ! lol

@Mrs.MedinaJr:

Block them instead and then they can’t find you on FB ever again or try to send you a nasty message, lol ! I don’t understand why some people don’t understand the Bride and Groom get to decide the guest list. That’s it, that’s all !

Post # 5
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767 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Oh, I know! I actually was thinking of posting something like “While you’re all great friends, my wedding will be very small and I can’t invite all of you”. Although, I think I’m not going to bother. Really I want to tell people that if I don’t talk to you and we haven’t hung out in OVER THREE YEARS, you’re probably not invited.

Post # 6
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6892 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

Ahhh, yes. People can be TOTALLY obnoxious about weddings over FB. I was almost afraid to change my relationship status to engaged, because I KNEW it was coming. :/ Buh. And honestly, I’ve felt like posting that EXACT thing! I just didn’t respond. At all.

I think it’s worse when it’s in person though. I hate the awkward moments and the “can’t wait for your big day” comments. Um… yeah me either?

Post # 7
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5388 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

I felt the same way when I first got engaged. I just wouldn’t respond to those people.

Now I want to put: “If you did not send in your RSVP by now, don’t come.” LOL It is 3 weeks past the deadline. I don’t think it is fair for me and my vendors to scramble around trying to accomodate rude people. I have tried emailing, texting, calling, and facebooking people. I feel that if they respond now, it is because their original plans fell thru and they are using us as a back up.

Post # 8
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489 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

Howabout:

“I am allowing you to be ‘friends’ with me so you can stalk me virtually.  Please don’t stalk me in real life too”

 

🙂

Post # 9
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1025 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Haha.

Dear Facebook Friends:

Yes I did get married. That’s why my profile picture is me in a wedding dress and my last name is different. But thank you for your OMG did you just get MarRieD?!?! comment.

 

Post # 10
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713 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

People are so crazy! I haven’t had anyone post anything like that to my facebook page – but I’ve had some people say it in person! I can’t believe it. I NEVER expect a wedding invitation except for close family members and close, close friends.

Post # 11
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1048 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Haha my FI’s cousin did this on his FB page.  She lives in NC, yes she is family, but we’ve been together for 4 years and I’ve never met her or her parents.  And unfortunately we added them to the list after that post.  Originally only her parents were invited….OY.

Post # 12
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5388 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

@jedeve: HAHA! Someone sent FH a pm like that when we got engaged. “OMG, are you really engaged?” He said “yes”. lol We were sitting next to each other when he checked his facebook.

Post # 13
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1537 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Haha ya, you’ve got to love those! I keep getting, “So I haven’t got my invite yet. Do you think it might be lost in the mail?” Ummm nope, you’re just not invited!

Post # 14
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6892 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

Ha! I just love the “surprised” OMG comments. I mean, really? You didn’t see it coming after 3 years and living together? Then you obviously didn’t pay enough attention PRE-engagement. Maybe THAT is why you aren’t invited. 😉

Dear FB Friends,

CHILL THE EFFFFF OUT. It’s not a trick.

:p

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