(Closed) Sometimes I think I should call it off

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
4478 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I’m sorry you feel that way.  I know you said you don’t want to get into details, but what do you mean by “I miss the old me”?  

Post # 4
868 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Answer one question:  Could you live without your fiancee?

If the answer is yes, then you have a decision to make.

If the answer is no, then ask yourself this question:

Could you live without the wedding?

Sometimes, it is all about perspective!


Post # 5
23 posts
  • Wedding: April 2012

I agree with ViaMinorViatorEven after 7 years together, I remember getting a weird feeling when he proposed.  Then, for the first few months after the engagement, I felt like I didn’t want to be with my FH.  I felt that he wasn’t being supportive and that maybe I had missed out on other opportunities (or would miss out) if we got married.  You may be experiencing something totally different but I totally felt like the old me was a lot cooler (maybe wishful thinking Cool) and that I was losing a big part of myself.  Like I said, maybe you have a total different situation but I soon realized I loved the guy but everything else about the wedding process freaked me out.  I think because wanting to get married and having a big-to-do is what most of us grow up with, I thought not wanting it was because of the guy.  No matter which way you decide, I really hope you find happiness.   

Post # 7
9 posts
  • Wedding: July 2015

You don’t need to apologise for how you feel!  You have every right to feel that way.  I did too not so long ago.


I was supposed to go wedding dress hunting with my mum, and instead, I went to visit my first every boyfriend.  I was going crazy and didn’t know what the heck I was doing.  I was freaking out about moving away from my friends, not going out as much, basically giving him me forever.. It ended with me and husband to be having a HUGE argument, and ever since then, things have never been a lot better.  I think it’s completely natural for brides to be to get pre gitters, at any time during their engagement.


Maybe you need to talk to you fiance about how you feel?

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