Post # 1
Ok so I had dated this guy all throughout High School and partially through college. His parents (actually mostly his mother) was always mean to me even though I tried my best to be nice to her all the time. Eventually he broke up with me because she told him to. Wow… no backbone huh! Probably for the best since I would hate to have a Mother-In-Law that was always mean to me.
Anyway probably about 4 years ago I got an email from him and I had been dating my current Fiance for about a year. He was telling me he still loved me and he wanted to get back together with me. I found out via facebook at the time that he was dating another girl. I was like wow you are a Dirtbag. Ovbiously I told him no way and moved on.
I never de-friended him on Facebook and found out he is now engaged to the same girl he wanted to leave for me way back in the day. I feel bad for her.
The other day I went to eat at a local restaurant and saw his sister. She was the hostess and seated me and my Fiance. I of course struck up a conversation with her asking her how her family was, etc. etc. and the whole time waiving my hands in front of her face. She finially broke out and said “Your ring is beautiful!” I thanked her and she went back to the front of the restaurant.
My Fiance gave me a quizzical look because I was smiling ear to ear. He was asking me “how do you know her.” I told him how she was the sister of the guy I dated and now he’s engaged to this girl he wanted to leave for me.
He was like “OH now I get why you were waiving your hands in her face. You wanted her to see the mega ring you have on your finger.”
Yes I did I want her to go back to Mr. Dirtbag ex and let him know I’m doing great and I have a big ring on my finger. I am unabashedly a [email protected] for doing so.
Go ahead. Say I’m acting childish. It was awesome. I don’t care.
Post # 5
Haha… the way this post started out I thought it was going to be way worse (like you sought out the girl and told her about your ex-bf’s e-mail).
Sure, maybe waving the ring around was a little childish… but some people talk with their hands right?
Post # 6
@KatNYC2011: I like the way you think KatNYC2011
Yeah it’s true. I do use my hands a lot. I’m italian. That’s what we do.
My favorite joke is how do you make an italian shut up? Tie their hands behind their back.
Post # 7
Oh and I wouldn’t tell the other girl that her Boyfriend or Best Friend was fishing to go back out with me. I feel bad for her, but I kind of feel that’s stepping over boundaries if I do that and would start all kinds of problems.
Post # 9
HA! that’s funny. I would probably have done something similar. My ex treated me like shit, but never wanted to break up, just be content with being unhappy. I’d love for him to hear about how happy I am now.
Post # 10
@posh_princess: Oh definitely. That would be a true bitch move.
PS we are date twins.
Post # 11
haha I think lots of people probably do this, even though most would never admit to it. Kudos to you!
Post # 12
@KatNYC2011: Hurray for date twins!! we will have to swap pics!
Post # 13
HAHA I love it, I would do it also but I like being a [email protected] sometimes
Post # 14
hahaha I love it!! My Fiance dated this girl off and on for a year in TENTH GRADE… We were kinda friends back in the day, so I guess I overstepped a “girl code” and started dating him at the end of Junior year. Well throughout the past 5 years, she has deliberately started drama and tried to cause problems and I’m like really?! You dated him for one year in high school AND you’ve had a boyfriend for a couple years yourself….move on!! Early last year (before we were engaged), this girl would “happen” to “run into” Fiance on campus at our college. He told me it made him uncomfortable, without me even asking about it. So one night on FB, I had enough. I clicked on her name, FB chatted her, and said basically “(FI’s Name) has A LOT going on right now with school/family issues and its hard for me to sit by and not have any control over it whatsoever…HOWEVER, I do have something to say to you. It bothers him when you try to talk to him, message him, and seek him out on campus. B!tch, STEP OFF!!” Then I signed off and she promptly deleted me.
I am a very quiet, usually reserved girl who has never really talked to anyone that way. I called Fiance to tell him what happened (because it was so out of character for me, but I had HAD IT with her lol) and he said “I know, she already messaged me about it” LITERALLY 5 minutes afterward.
It felt so good, I have to admit. She has not bothered us since…except once around November, she messaged him on FB and asked “Why they couldn’t be friends because she had never ‘threatened’ our relationship?” I was like really?!
So yes, It is completely OKAY to be a bitch every once in a while 😉 even though I think you handled that situation very well lol
Post # 15
ROTFLMAO – I can’t tell you how many times I have wanted to do that! Come on, we are all human.
Post # 16
@JennBug89: That’s awesome that you told her just how you feel. I think it sometimes is a great relief after you’ve been upset about something to just do something bitchy. I think we all deserve to let that side out a little bit sometimes.
I think it’s best delivered when you don’t act like a biatch, but underneath that’s what you’re going for.