Post # 1
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Blushing bee
What can I wear?..lol
Ok. I came on here to ask suggestions for what to wear at 2 weddings. I haven’t been a guest to a wedding in over 10 years. I have always been in them. With these weddings 1 is Semiformal and the other is super formal. I happened to read the No you can’t wear fucking jeans to my wedding.. and I started cracking up. Not at her pain, but at the fact that someone would want to wear jeans to a wedding. And that about 20 minutes ago before I got on here my Joke to my husband was me saying F~ it.. Im just going to wear jeans ..100% kidding, and he knew it.
anyways one of the weddings (semiformal one) is in the spring. Is this appropriate?
http://www1.macys.com/shop/product/js-collections-split-sleeve-embroidered-dress?ID=662992&CategoryID=5449#fn=sp%3D1%26spc%3D601%26kws%3Dwedding%20guest%26slotId%3D14
Im so lost. And as far as the formal wedding, I am having a hard time between what looks like formal bridesmaid dress and a formal dress. They all look the same to me now. I guess I have been staring at dresses to long tonight
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
@tootsweet: That dress will work for a spring wedding.
Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
@tootsweet: 
cute dress- will be perfect for spring wedding
Post # 5
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Busy bee
Post # 6
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Blushing bee
@julies1949: thank you… I couldn’t figure out how to get the picture on here
and thanks to both of you. I think Im going to click buy! Im sure I can use this for more than just a wedding
Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
@julies1949: this dress is super cute – just male sure its not in white. Picture it looks light pink – which is great.
Post # 8
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Blushing bee
thanks for all the replies so fast. And now next question… the semiformal wedding colors are being kept a secret (I dont know why). What if I am wearing the same color?..is that horrible?
Post # 9
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Bumble bee
@tootsweet: If they are keeping it a secret they can hardly get cranky with anyone for wearing their colours! (I wouldnt’ care if someone wore my wedding colours anyway)
Post # 10
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Honey bee
@tootsweet: So funny. After my grandmother showed my sister the dress she was thinking of wearing to her wedding (short), my sister let it slip that she’d be the only grandmother in a short dress (black tie wedding). She then went out and bought a long dress in dark purple; yup, the bridesmaids were wearing dark purple gowns (it wasn’t a secret, either). Of course she just had to say “don’t I look just like a bridesmaid?” Nope, she just looked foolish (and she wasn’t in any of the bridal party photos).
Post # 11
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Blushing bee
I think its the “secret color” part that is stressing me out. I really don’t want to wear the same color. I know pink is a popular color too. My new post should be F~ it.. Im going naked
Post # 12
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Bumble Beekeeper
@tootsweet: Wear whatever you want, what makes you comfortable. The bride and groom should be more interested in you attending than what you wear. I mean that is the thing that I remember about my wedding, all the people who came and certainly not what they were wearing.
Post # 13
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Busy bee
@tootsweet: I got a spinoff thread! Yay!!!
My suggestion? Don’t wear jeans. hehehe
Post # 14
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Blushing bee
@CreatureFromTheBlackLagoon: ..don’t you see… I’m going naked. All kidding aside. No worries, I wont be wearing jeans 
Post # 15
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Helper bee
Wear something that you believe you look good in, that you can dance in, and that is fancy enough that you wouldn’t want to wear it to work. Don’t wear white. Don’t dress like a slob. Now is not the occasion to “dress up” a pair of skinny jeans.
Post # 16
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Blushing bee
If they are keeping it a secret, then you are off the hook for worrying about wearing “their” color. Just don’t wear white (and I wouldn’t wear black unless it a very fancy cocktail type affair).
As an aside, to someone who has done this (kept the color as a secret) – WHY??? I really am curious.
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