- 6 years ago
- Wedding: June 2012
So Im going to start this out with a little background and then get to the issue at hand so please bear with me here!
My cousin, “C”, had been with her boyfriend about the same amount of time I had been seeing mine and they have a child together(sorta) so it wasn’t shocking when he popped the question a few weeks before Christmas 2010. Now mind you “C” moved 4 hours away when she was 6 and had very rarely come back to our home town until about two years ago when she moved back for school and even though as kids we were close, we are far far from it now! My boyfriend (now fiance) had been talking about it for awhile and I knew it was coming when he popped the question on my bday in Jan 2011. Even before he asked I had my heart set on a late June wedding. When I found out that “C” had set her date (June 30 2012) I was crushed but settled for October 20 2012…. well then the poo hit the fan when “C” and her finace broke up and boy was it a bad one! I wont go into the gorey details but there was cheating on both sides, and lying out the wazoo! No one thought they would ever get back together and let alone get married so after a long, long battle with myself I moved my date to the one I had wanted from the get go, June 30th. THEN THEY GOT BACK TOGETHER dun da dun… and set their new date for June 23rd. Yep. The weekend before my wedding. Now I know technically it was her day first but after that break up i would have thought kim k and kris hump would have a better chance of working it out!
So that being the background story ( i know it was super long! sorry) here is the kicker! One of my BFFs who is a bridesmaid is also in my cousins wedding and now my friend “M” is recently engaged and we are both in her wedding!
I NEED to get along with this girl who is impossible to get along with (she punched out her own grandma who practically raised her if that says anything!)
Any advice Bees??
P.S. Just a side note, I had ordered and had my dress hanging in my closet when I found out that I had apparently “stolen” the dress she wanted too. Its a vera wang tulle ball gown and she is having a camo wedding… am I crazy or is that just odd??