(Closed) Soo embarrassed…

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
369 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I would still send them out! Everyone one who did think “huh, weird I never got a thank you,” can banish those thoughts πŸ™‚ for some of your closer friends, maybe you can even write a short note on the envelope? I.e. sorry, these got lost!

Post # 4
610 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@sharkchomp:  I totally agree 


I would mail them out asap! 

Post # 5
8576 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

I would still send them out, and then maybe send out hand written letters about what had happened.. I’m sure your guests will appreciate your thoughts, and trying to make it right. Some of them will even think it’s funny! I know I do! Better late than never!

Post # 6
9181 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

I would still send them out – write a note on the envelope saying how they were misplaced whe you thought they’d been sent, etc. Oh men!!!

Post # 7
967 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Oh wow! Since they are already stamped and ready to go, just drop them in the mailbox. Eek!

Post # 8
4605 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

I would still send them and just write a little note or something explaining what happened. The same thing happened with my college graduation thank you notes, but I just stuck a little note in the envelope saying that I was sorry, but the thank you notes had gotten lost.

Post # 9
186 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Better late than never?  I would send them.  You’ve already spent the time writing them our and the $ for the postage.

Post # 11
973 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Oh, make sure to check the postage!  If they aren’t forever stamps they made need some added. πŸ™

I agree, send them with a note on the envelope. I’d be amused if I got one, especially if you later told me how they got lost lol.

Post # 12
11420 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2009

@MrsTangerine:  +1 on checking the postage. I was just going to say that.

@Cherylmarie2818:  I agree with the other posters.  Just send them now. Many people believe (though I’ve subsequently learned on WB that this isn’t true), that couples have up to a year to send their TY  notes.  Since so many people are under this impression, many of your guests likely will think that you’re just a little behind. πŸ™‚ 

Post # 14
280 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Glad to hear that you got them out! I would just add that you should make sure you get LOTS of dishwashing/laundry/bathroom cleaning/whatever-chore-you-hate-the-most from you husband for a while to make up for it! πŸ™‚

Post # 15
597 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

@Cherylmarie2818:  YIKES! I’d be embarasses too. Just send them, and on the outer envelope on the back just write, “I’m soo sorry these are late, they were lost!” 


Post # 16
11270 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

better late than never.

i’d write a little note on the back of the envelope.

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