- 5 years ago
If you’ve seen my posts before, they are typicially venting/going crazy threads, so that I don’t say things that will screw up my waiting. It’s also super comforting to know there is this amazing community of women who really understand what I’m going through, as none of my other friends are in the same “waiting” situatiion.
And Bees I have great news, my wait will “soon” be coming to an end, and I am EXTATIC.
Friday evening my SO went out drinking with some friends from work (he found he got the promotion he was hoping for!!!!) and he said he’d be home around 10 so he could celebrate with me too. Well… 9:50 comes around, and he called me to say his new boss and his bosses boss just walked in the door, and that he would be staying… and that really hurt. Anyways, fast forward to him coming home at 2 am, and to drown my sorrows, I drank a bottle of wine… and yep, we had a drunken screaming match, then went to bed to sleep off our buzz. Saturday morning he wakes up with the hang over from hell, and starts apologizing. We had argued a few weeks ago, how I am ALWAYS his biggest supporter, but I feel like he takes that for granted. So in his appology Saturday morning he says “I’m sorry, I know you always put my first, and I have to remember that I’m not just me anymore. I promise I’m gonna put a ring on that finger soon”
CUE TO ME WITH THE BIGGEST SMILE ON MY FACE EVER
We’ve talked about getting married and having kids regularly, and we agreed that “boyfriend” and “girlfriend” no longer fits what our relationship is. We also have a deal that he has until our next anniversary to propose (aug 18) or I get to propose to him (which he has agreed to). (not an ultimatum, I just don’t want to wait forever!)
I’m just so happy I feel like the end of my waiting is in sight!!
To accept his appology I asked him if it was his definition of soon, or mine (a running joke through our relationship as he has NO concept of time, and he knows it).
I just thought I would take the opprotunity to have a happy excited post for once instead of a IM LOSING MY MIND post!
Thanks Bees, no idea what I would do without the hive!!