(Closed) Sooooo, I’m bumming pretty hard right now.

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
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Sugar bee

No worries, long engagements can mean people don’t realize you are trying to make concrete decisions and commitments so early. I had a 3 year engagement and really felt like I was still doing last minute things as no one, including my mom, really took it seriously when I asked for help 2 years in advance. Try making your own list and giving it to your mom for approval and asking her to write in additional guests. This way, she gets a concrete document from you which not only helps her to take it seriously but makes it easier for her to approve and/or edit instead of starting from scratch. Ultimately, it’s your wedding and you may need to be the instigator sometimes, even when it feels like you are the only one focused on geting things done.

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