Post # 1
Ok, so the BF and I had an awesome weekend again. Then Monday hits. I get a email from my very good friend and aparently my BF had emailed her asking if I knew anything about him buying a ring. I do kind of, but will not let him know that. I want him to surprise me. So she told him that I was hoping he has made the purchase but I do not know for sure. She was trying to smooth over the situation. I guess his good guy friend who has an extremly big mouth and a even bigger mouthed wife can not keep a secret or see anyone else be happy. This supposed friend of ours said something to my BF over the weekend that made him think I knew he bought the ring. I have a good hunch that he may ask on my birthday, but now I am concerned that he will change his mind because of this evil witch who claims she and her creepo husband are our friends. HA! She is the devil. That’s what she is! Maybe when they have kids she will have a 15lb kid with an enormous head. Yes, I am being very vindictive right now.
My good friend feels horrible for me and she said she emailed him back trying to smooth over the situation. I know a lot of this doesn’t make sense. His friend knows that my BF is planning something. I guess his friends wife emailed my good friend and told her all about it and my friend kind of let it slip that I noticed the ring box was gone. My good friend is also good friends with my BF. Her husband and my BF have been friends for a long time. Anywhoo. My friend tried to fix the situation and feels bad. I just don’t know what is going to happen now. Why can’t people keep secrets. I don’t understand. Why is this girl such a heinous witch and want to ruin it for me?? This is the same mean girl that would say something nasty about my ring. She said that about my good friend’s ring and hers was a 2 carat emerald cut diamond that was gorgeous. This mean girl had the audacity to say it looked bigger in the pictures!
Post # 3
Your so called “friend” so bitter and unhappy. I know people like this and they live off of ruining things for other people. If I were you I wouldn’t make any comment about how you think he bought the ring because he obviously has and all you can do is wait it out. I also would limit my time around her and not confide in her with anything.
She kind of sounds like one of bf’s good friends wife. She has made nasty comments about his other friends wifes ring. Ive already thought of somethings to say to her if she does it to me (if and when I get engaged that is). I am not materialistic at all a ring is a symbol of love whether it is just a gold band or a 5 carart diamond. I like the simple look it is classic and elegant. I would simply say to her “well I don’t really care about the size of the diamond or the price tag because our love can’t be measured. It could be just a band and it would be more beautiful than a ring bought for just its worth.”
I know it is cheesy but it is true and should be true. And keep in your mind if she does say something nasty and keeps trying to ruin things for you she is just jealous.
Post # 4
Honestly, the more you try to make her stop interferring, the more she’s going to try and make herself an influence in the situation. People like that thrive off of the attention, good or bad.
Post # 5
I think you should just stop talking to other people about the engagement. If people bring it up, ask you questions, etc. just tell them you don’t want to talk about it. People love drama and will involve themselves anyway they can.
Really, in the first place, your boyfriend shouldn’t be talking to anyone about it, but you can’t change that. When I got engaged, one person knew — my dad. And that is because Fiance asked him for my hand, etc.
This engagement should be a surprise and a special time between YOU and Fiance. Leave everyone else out of it as much as humanly possible.
Post # 6
I don’t even like this girl. She is mean and nasty. I know she will say something about my ring whenever I get it and you know what I am going to say to her….well then, I guess it’s a good thing you don’t have to wear it. She’s stupid yotch and I hate her. GRRRR!!!!
I feel bad for my good friend who is now in the middle of this. She and I talk everyday and when I noticed the box was moved I was super excited so I mentioned it to her. I didn’t say I knew he bought it or anything. All I said was, the box has been moved. That’s it.
My BF told the mean girl’s husband what his plan was and if he bought it or not and he went and blabbed to his big mouth wife who then turned around and emailed my good friend. I haven’t said anything to my BF about any of this and nor will I. Whenever wedding stuff comes up, I say IF we ever get married. And when he asks what I want for my birthday I come up with some small idea of a gift. I want him to make it special not only for me but for him as well. I certainly hope this mean girl behaves at the wedding or she will not want to deal with my mother. She can be the queen “bi***” and wil tell this girl exactly what she needs to hear. I should video it!! HAHAH!