(Closed) Sorry but I need to vent!!!!! GRRRRR!!!!!!

posted 12 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Member
44 posts
Newbee

Your so called “friend” so bitter and unhappy. I know people like this and they live off of ruining things for other people. If I were you I wouldn’t make any comment about how you think he bought the ring because he obviously has and all you can do is wait it out. I also would limit my time around her and not confide in her with anything.

She kind of sounds like one of bf’s good friends wife. She has made nasty comments about his other friends wifes ring. Ive already thought of somethings to say to her if she does it to me (if and when I get engaged that is). I am not materialistic at all a ring is a symbol of love whether it is just a gold band or a 5 carart diamond. I like the simple look it is classic and elegant. I would simply say to her “well I don’t really care about the size of the diamond or the price tag because our love can’t be measured. It could be just a band and it would be more beautiful than a ring bought for just its worth.”

I know it is cheesy but it is true and should be true. And keep in your mind if she does say something nasty and keeps trying to ruin things for you she is just jealous.

Post # 4
Member
2316 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Honestly, the more you try to make her stop interferring, the more she’s going to try and make herself an influence in the situation. People like that thrive off of the attention, good or bad.

Post # 5
Member
2365 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I think you should just stop talking to other people about the engagement.  If people bring it up, ask you questions, etc. just tell them you don’t want to talk about it.  People love drama and will involve themselves anyway they can.

Really, in the first place, your boyfriend shouldn’t be talking to anyone about it, but you can’t change that.  When I got engaged, one person knew — my dad.  And that is because Fiance asked him for my hand, etc.

This engagement should be a surprise and a special time between YOU and Fiance.  Leave everyone else out of it as much as humanly possible.

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