- 6 years ago
- Wedding: September 2012
I’m having a bit of an issue letting a cousin know that she’s not going to be a bridesmaid in my upcoming wedding. We were some what close when we were little saying that we’re going to be in each other’s weddings but have grown up.
The day has come that I’m engaged and getting married and she’s automatically assuming she’s a bridesmaid. How do I break the news to her that I’ve made my bridesmaid selection on girls who have been supportive of me in endeavours and wedding planning process.
P.S. My Fiance usually doesn’t get into such matters but he didn’t think that she deserved to be a bridesmaid because she’s not very supportive of me but I’m always in her corner. He said that I should include her as well especially if she may not be able to foot the bill for her dress or chip in for a shower/party.