(Closed) Sort of NWR…dad is sick…

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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7975 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

((((HUGS)))) I’m so sorry to hear about your dad! I think it’s great how you and your Fiance are both so willing to step and help him and the rest of your family through this tough time. Make sure you are taking care of you too though!

I don’t think you should worry about what anyone will think regarding your reasons for getting married. If it’s what you guys want to do, that’s all that matters. People will always find reasons to think what they want if they’re that type; fortunately their opinions don’t have to affect our happiness or behavior!

Post # 4
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619 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2010

Im so sorry you’re going through this and having other stuff to worry about Im sure is adding to the stress level.

Just be there for him however and whatever that can be day by day. That’s all you can do for now.  As far as being engaged or not, that’s up to you both and no one will think its for any other reason than what you want….we moved up our wedding date from Sept to this past Sunday! yes, everyone knew it was to help my future mother in law be with us as she is very ill…but they understood and thanked us for it.

I wish I could give you more words of widsom, but I can send you my prayers and good vibes to you and your family.

Post # 5
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3285 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

First of all, hugs!  You have a lot on your plate to deal with, so just know that there are people who are appreciating all you’re doing!

As for people assuming that you’d get married, etc., just because of the situation you are in – I’d say just ignore that!  It’s hard to do things sometimes, but from this post, it sounds to me that marriage really is the next step for the two of you; what, with his support and both of your maturity levels at such a young age.

In the meantime, keep your head up and stay positive!  Things will work out, it may just take some time =)

Post # 6
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1110 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2009

I am so sorry to hear and I hope all falls into place for you soon.

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