Post # 1
anyone else terrified about what happens after the wedding…like a mortgage and bills and trying to live. I work part time and school full time, FH works full time..and we live in the most expensive place on Earth it feels like. We rarely do anything, and save what we can, but it feels like between school and credit cards we will never buy a house…I’m freaking out at 1:30 am LOL…
Post # 3
Yep. 2 months after our wedding, we found out that we’re moving to another whole continent where we will have to buy all new furniture, place deposits on a place to live and buy me a new car. I work in retail, Darling Husband is military, I have $30k in student loans and another semester of college to go.
I totally understand.
Post # 4
haha, girl take a breath!! I know it’s a lot to handle, but I’m sure you’ll be just fine! 🙂
Post # 5
We have lived together for just over 10 years and already share the mortgage and other bills, so it won’t be that bad for us. I suggest setting up a budget that you can both live with and set up a savings for your down payment on the house, even if it is $10.00 a week for the first little while. At least it will be something you can look forward to and see grow.
Post # 6
I think it is only human to freak every once in a while. I still do, but I know that the FH will always do his best for me and I hide the panick well. Everyone goes through some tough times but they don’t last. Someday you will look back and be thankful that you worked hard, got your education, and that time is passed. 🙂