- 5 years ago
- Wedding: April 2015
So my boyfriend had this friend/aquaintance, that for all intents and purposes was a creep-o to me from the get go. He was actually an acquaintance of some friends of ours and that was how we met him. My SO being the good hearted man he is gave this guy a chance because they had some similar interests, but I always got weird vibes from him. He was socially awkward, and I didn’t really ever feel 100% comfortable around him. My SO’s best friend even made the comment that he would never leave the guy around me without him or my SO being in the room, since he didn’t feel he could trust him. Anyway, so fast forward to last night, Mr. Creep-O and my SO’s best friend came over to hang out.
The night started out good, but halfway through my SO and his friends came back inside from being on the balcony and my SO looked super stressed out/tired. I thought it was sort of weird, but he had worked a long shift so I figured he was just sleepy and tired from working. After about 2-3 hours everyone left and my SO called me to the bedroom to give him a hug because he wanted to talk to me. He told me the creepy guy had randomly out of the blue him asked him if he could sleep on our couch that night. He gave my SO this sob story about how he was in between work right now, really had no place to stay, blah blah blah. Although he had just finished telling us about how he had blown my SO off yesterday to sleep with some random girl. My SO said he felt bad for the guy, but he had to be at work early this morning and wasn’t leaving him home with me. But the guy was sort of adamant about staying. So my SO texted his best friend about it, and his best friend even said that he shouldn’t let him sleep over. Especially if I was going to be home still when my SO left for work, since this guy thought my SO would let him sleep in while he left. Umm hell to the freaking no!
My SO said he was completely weirded out by the guy and so he’s not coming over again. I’m happy because I had told him from the get go, that guy was bad news. I mean he was nice, but he did some very creepy things. Like mentioning his sexcapades all the time to us, eyeing me weirdly, and even trying to give my SO and his friends some drugs once. I just never felt comfortable with the guy. And I mean if it were any of my SO’s other friends, they could sleep over and I wouldn’t care, even if my SO was gone. Because I trust them and so does my SO. But this guy, I don’t know he was a piece of work. Does anyone else have a friend or ex friend of your SO/FI/DH that you find to be creepy or found to be creepy?