- Mrs. Harmony
- 6 years ago
I can’t believe I’m writing this question to you all!! I am 32 and I never thought I would be in a frenzy over FB!! But I requested his mom a few weeks after meeting her. She never accepted, but I would notice her accepting other people. It sounds stupid, like I’m “stalking” her, and I once mentioned it to SO. I was not flipping out over it, because FB drama is just not my style (yet here I am posting about it). SO said she probably didn’t get it, so I let it go. I did cancel the request so that I can stip thinking about it.
Her birthday was 2 weeks ago, so I friend requested her again in order to send her a happy birthday message. You can’t contact somene without a friend request, so I imbedded the birthday greeting into the request. Granted, a decent person would have sent a card, but I didn’t know it was her birthday until the day of. So that was the best I could do. SO always forgets his parent’s birthdays and his dad had to call him to remind him, and I was in the room when his dad called… that’s how I found out.
I went on her page today (stalking again… I know!) and sure enough, she’s accepting other people! 3-4 in the past week! What’s going on??
SO hates FB and deleted his account when he broke up with his ex and drama ensued. He always says people who get pent up about FB are just morons. I know if I mention this to him, he will think I am being petty, and I probably am!
His mom has always been nice to me. She was interested in learning about me, etc, when I visited the first time. She hugged me good bye and sent me veggies from her garden. I also sent her veggies from mine several times.
The only other thing is that they never invite me over to their home. They have not shown interest in meeting my son either. SO and I have been together 6 months and we were very serious. They live 20 minutes away and I have met them twice. SO is close with his parents. He is there 1-2 times a week. I constantly ask him when I can see them again, and he brushes it off like they are boring people and there’s nothing to do there, etc.
I feel like a conversation is overdue with SO, but could it be that I am overstepping my boundaries? I don’t want to look like I am a stalker. I’m thinking about letting the FB thing go if I can just see his family a little more often. Then I wouldn’t worry about his mom liking me.
Any advice? I have never dealt with this before and it’s strange.