(Closed) SO's reaction

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Manhattan Church Rec Center

The same reason we ask them stuff. To Gouge their reaction! girl, you have just been Gouged

Post # 4
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Bumble bee

I would mention it to him.  He might not have meant for it to sound that way. 

Better to clarify than to stew about it any longer. 

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

Oh I would’ve pounced him for that! “Why’d you say it like THAT?!” that sucks hon I’m sorry 🙁

Post # 6
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Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I agree with Rush and OMG.  I’d say something if it bothered you that much because he may not have meant it the way you heard it. 

The same thing happened to me this weekend when Boyfriend or Best Friend was talking about possibly relocating out of state for a job.  I told him that we’d be screwed because they don’t pay relocation for GF’s just wives.  He knows I want a small destination wedding, so when he threw out off the cuff that we would just have to go to the courthouse real quick it kind of upset me. I asked him if the thought of a wedding was what was keeping him from proposing already and he said no he didn’t mean it like that, he just meant that if it was what we had to do to get us both there then we would do what we had to. 

Just talk to him, you’ll feel better. 

Post # 7
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

I agree with the others.  Don’t take it too much to heart, chances are he didn’t mean anything bad by it.

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

@OneOfTheseDaysAlice:  URG!!! If I ever even remotely start to understand men and what they mean behind what they say I’ll give you a translation. 

But I know when people ask me things randomly I get flustered and a bit “harsh” sounding so I wouldn’t read too much into it.  

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