(Closed) Spanking discussion

posted 10 months ago in Beehive
  • poll: Do you spank or would you spank your kid?
    Yes : (11 votes)
    12 %
    No : (65 votes)
    70 %
    Depends on the situation : (17 votes)
    18 %
  • Post # 48
    Member
    1599 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2019 - City, State

    sallyloves90 :  Spanking is not discipline, this is not something that you can have an opinion on. Spanking DOES NOT WORK. It does not. 30 years of research proves that it doesn’t. You are wrong, there are no two ways about it.

    Hitting solves NOTHING. Spanking accomplishes 2 things – it instills fear (that’s a bad thing, in case you didn’t know), and it teaches kids that you can hit someone when you think they are wrong (also a bad thing).

    If you spank you kids, you are a lazy parent. That is a fact.

    Also, I’m glad you wouldn’t have expected less from this forum. That means the majority of the users are logical people.

    Post # 49
    Member
    5564 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2017

    sallyloves90 :  you’re… you’re joking, right? That one story, of how I handled my three year old hitting me in the face, and how she didn’t do it again after I told her how unacceptable that was… your take away is that my parenting is shit because she hit me during a temper tantrum?

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    Post # 52
    Member
    5564 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2017

    I mean… kids try new things all the time to get what they want. They push limits and see how far they can get. It’s… that’s… that’s seriously just what they do πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

    She tried something new and she failed. 

    Post # 53
    Hostess
    9632 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: March 2014 - Chicago, IL

    This thread was opened to start drama and criticize others’ parenting choices. I’m going to go ahead and close this.

    The topic ‘Spanking discussion’ is closed to new replies.

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