(Closed) Spanking for Jesus

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Do/would you engage in Christian Domestic Discipline?
    Yes, I currently practice Christian Domestic Discipline : (12 votes)
    3 %
    I don't currently practice Christian Domestic Discipline, but I would consider it : (2 votes)
    1 %
    I would never even consider practicing Christian Domestic Discipline : (346 votes)
    95 %
    Other : (4 votes)
    1 %
  • Post # 32
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    @badabing88:  It’s a great site! Did you grow up quiverful?

    Post # 33
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    I was raised pentecostal holiness (very evangelical fundamentalist) and everyone I knew 100% believed “spare the rod spoil the child”. I remember having to go out before my grandmother died and pick my own switches when I got in trouble (hint- the thicker the less it hurts, those skinny minnies are like a whip). My dad bypassed all that and bought dowels from home depot he would use, then he moved up to a giant ass paddle the size of my face when we became rambunctius teenagers, more to scare us into submission than anything else. He only used it once, on my brother, I don’t remember what for but my brother came out smiling and said “I just acted like it hurts, because it really doesn’t, but he doesn’t know that”. BUT I have never, ever, ever, heard of spaning your wife to punish them. And I know some pretty old-school submissive to the max wives. Heck, my Future Sister-In-Law doesn’t even know how much her hubby makes because in his words “as long as the bills are paid & she can get whatever she wants & still waking up early to cook me breakfast & lunch every morning she doesn’t need to know any of that”. I was floored, no way would I ever be with a man that felt like I “didn’t need to know” anything about our finances….. Not to mention I’ve got zero problem telling my Fiance to make himself his own damn lunch, I’m neither his momma nor maid…. 

    Post # 34
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    @Mrs.babycat:  Honestly, I could never take it seriously, mainly because Fiance and I use light spanking as a type of foreplay- just reading about it got me going lol 😉 I don’t think I could ever see it as a true punishment.

    Post # 35
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    @MrsHS:  Not QF, but in an “evangelical” Christian church/home. NLQ is also tailored toward other oppressive denominations as well. Here is my page on NLQ with a couple of pieces:

    http://www.patheos.com/blogs/nolongerquivering/betty-crux/

    I’ll be honest, I got chills when you mentioned the site…I’ve never run into anyone else who has heard of it.

    Post # 36
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    @badabing88:  Wow, I am so sorry you had to be around people who actually believed that crap when you were growing up.  The whole corporal punishment thing, whether it’s being administered on a helpless child, a little dog or cat, or another adult… just feels so Stone Age to me.  Human beings have the gift of being able to communicate with one another in so many ways, inflicting pain is one of the basest things we are capable of doing.

    Also, FWIW my husband messes up or forgets to do things around the house waaay more than I do, so how could him punishing perfect little me ever accomplish anything?!?

    Post # 37
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    @Pomapoo:  LMAO exactly: I’d be spanking him round the clock 😉

    Post # 38
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: April 2006

    @Sunfire:  Exactly! That’s not a Christian site, that’s Abusers’ Central!

    Post # 39
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2007

    I know of a few couples who do participate in this. It’s disturbing, and actually really sad to me. Partners are supposed to be equal in a relationship.

    As for me, hell no. If Darling Husband ever seriously tried to ‘spank me’ for punishment or put me in time out, he’d be in the ER with a broken face. Innocent

    Post # 40
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    @Mrs.babycat:  I was raised in a Christian household and not once have I ever heard of this. It sounds cult-ish to be honest, and I can’t imagine who in their right mind would think this is okay.

    Post # 41
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    @badabing88:  Sorry. I hope I didn’t bring up any bad memories. I’ve read it and other blogs like it for a while. I was raised catholic but was brought into a cultish Pentecostal youth group in my pre-teens (I managed to see the light and leave by the time I was in my mid-teens). That kind of spiritual abuse doesn’t really leave you. I’ve been fascinated by these crazy Christian sub-cultures ever since. There is some crazy S#*t out there! I’m happy you were able to get away from it! Kudos to you for telling your story!

    Post # 42
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    Gross.

    Post # 43
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    Dafuq did I just read?! HELL NO!

    Post # 44
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    Worker bee

    Oh please. The correct name should be spanking for Satan. This has nothing to do with Jesus or His teachings.

    Post # 45
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    @MrsHS:  Oh no, you didnt. I’m glad there are people out there actually reading those stories. So many Christians do not know these things happen in the name of God, and there needs to be more awareness…and less “well-they-weren’t-real-Christians” responses.

    Post # 46
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    Busy Beekeeper

    Sounds like some twisted sexual thing where neither party is being honest. Rather than saying, I wanna spank you or be spanked, it’s lets dress it up in some religious bullshit. 

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