(Closed) Speak now or forever hold your peace.

posted 8 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 3
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

@beeloved: I sincerely hope no-one “speaks now”! If they did, it probably wouldn’t end well for them. I have been taming down my “bridezilla” antics but you best believe I will probably be a raging lunatic if this were to happen during our ceremony. 

Post # 4
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

We aren’t having it in our ceremony either. We don’t think anyone but us should have any say in whether or not we get married. We do have a couple of potential guests that might, if they had the opportunity, object. We are hoping they decline the invitation….

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I just watched the episode of Everybody Loves Raymond where Robert and Amy get married and his mom does this. So funny ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 6
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@beeloved: I’d flipped the eff out. I would probably tell the person to STFU and sit down. lol

So glad I am writing my  own ceremony.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Well, I think it would depend on the person, and why they were saying it. 

For example, if someone in FI’s family spoke up and was like “we don’t like her, don’t do it” i would smack a b**ch

But if, you know…. Johnny Depp showed up or something…. and was like “I love you, come with me”…. well, I think that might be a tough one to be mad about! 

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Oh my gosh, they wouldn’t have had to worry so much about me, but rather my mom! I think I’d want to punch someone in the face.

Post # 9
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404 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I. Would. Flip. A few hours later there would probably be a youtube video of me, decked out in wedding gear, kicking some ass. Then I’d be in jail.

So. Hope it doesn’t happen. ๐Ÿ™‚ Honestly, we’ve got very little family/friend conflict/naysayers, so I can’t think of a single person who would say something.

Post # 10
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

We left that out of our ceremony – I dont think anyone would have said anything though!

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

i think we had some form of this said during our ceremony, my pastor joked around during the rehearsal that it didn’t matter cuz he wasn’t going to give anyone enough time to say anything. ๐Ÿ˜› LOL and no- no one did.

Post # 12
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

so my Future Mother-In-Law got married a few weeks ago and the judge DID ask her at her wedding. It was so funny too because as soon as he did she (FMIL) turned around and pointed at someone and was like “Not a word you! I’ve waited long enough!” lol. She was totally kidding and it got a huge laugh ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I actually had someone do this–at my first wedding.  It was an old boyfriend, one of those great loves who is on again/off again, but who makes a HUGE impression on you.  He burst through the doors right at that moment, saying “Wait!”

It was all very dramatic, and I am 100% sure he planned it this way.

He made this big impassioned speech about how he loved me, and how I couldn’t walk away from him because we were meant to be together, how we had made each other and there was no one else.  How the man I was marrying wasn’t good enough for me, and that it was the biggest mistake of my life.

I’m totally serious.

At the time I was livid.  All that happened was that we took a break to discuss his concerns with the pastor in the back and then the ex left and the wedding went on like normal.

(Of course, the ex was right.  The man I married that day was very abusive, physically and emotionally, and it started before the wedding.  I wanted SO BAD to run out the door with him, but all I could think of was how much money my Mother had already spent, and how devestated they would be if they knew.  So I did nothing.)

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

@Quietserenity: Wow, I can’t imagine!!! I’m glad you found the strength to get yourself out of that relationship!

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