- 7 years ago
- Wedding: October 2012
So I am just really frustrated! I’m going on a rant but I promise it wont be too bad! So far I have paid for everything to do with this wedding, no one helps me, no one even hints towards wanting to help me and it’s pissing me off. I’m not made of money here, I can’t walk outside and pull some down of my abundant money tree!?! At any given time I will always have more money than my fiance, even though he just got a raise, he sells stuff on amazon.com, I still have more money. So what happens, I patiently watch him blow all his money on dumb “collectables” for him to “sell” but that in actuality just sit in our spare bedroom in tubs for months until someone buys possibly one $5 tiny item. So today I’m mad because everyone can splurge, everyone can get things handed to them, and I have to scrape and save every cent I possibly can to pay for a wedding that right now feels like it’s just mine, like he’s just along for the ride and doesn’t even care. Today, because he spent his money on who knows what dumb toy, or a box of some dumb cards, or even puzzles and board games (because we are 3, didn’t you know?) he had to ask ME for money. Now, I’m not in any shape or form old fashioned about money. It’s mine, I work for it, I save it, I don’t blow it, so he’s not in my opinion entitled to it. I’ve told him from day one, we split 50/50 our bills and what’s left is ours to do whatever we want with. Sure, then I shouldn’t be mad he spends his, I said he could do what he wanted, but asking me for my money isn’t part of the deal.
Honestly, I wouldn’t be so upset if I weren’t working so hard and stressing myself out about money for our wedding. Why can’t he cut back his frivolous spending like I had to? I gave up STARBUCKS!!! lol He’s a good guy, I love him to pieces! But really? Stop buying so much bs, and help your struggling women pay for the damn wedding you said you wanted when you put a ring on her finger!!! *sigh*